How confident/shy are you?

I'm curious, after reading another thread. Cancer men/women, when you are interested in someone, how confident are you? How do you behave when you like someone? Do you ever say it straight out, or do you stay at a distance? The cancers I know say they would never approach someone they're interested in and they would be shy until they're sure of the person. So I'm curious. Opinions!

I'm confident then shy, express interest then stay at a distance. Viscious cycle. 🙂

Posted by beautifuldiaster
Does cancer rising count?

Sure. It's all interesting!

Posted by Kim31
I'm confident then shy, express interest then stay at a distance. Viscious cycle. 🙂

This. This is exactly what I have experienced with cancer men.

Posted by dirtymelodies

Posted by Kim31
I'm confident then shy, express interest then stay at a distance. Viscious cycle. 🙂

This. This is exactly what I have experienced with cancer men.

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ditto. Also mars in cancer acts like this.

Posted by LunarMan
Very shy. I sit in the room with my head down, feet crossed and hands clasped in my lap. I have never made a move on someone first.

A bit depressing.

I'm painfully shy to approach a guy..I would never do it (Well I did it before but my Sagg best friend was there for support haha) It was funny and weird at the same time, omg I didn't even remember I did such a thing lmao.

My male friends are always interested in me so I never had to initiate anything just let them down softly.

If he wasn't a friend or anything I would probably flirt alot but thats it no more.

When I'm interested in a woman I start observing her first if I see what I like I will observe a little more then start building a friendship first. If I see something I don't like in the observation process then I'm not interested.

I make female friends fairly easy just the way it is with me. I'm I an introvert yep, do I like being the center of attention, nope, do I like being in crowds, nope, when I enter a room full of people I walk along the edge and sit in a place I can observe and scan the room to see if there is anybody I know.

Sounds right

HUH?i'm very direct, very confident. if i get shut down,meh unto the next one.My Cancer sexiness is supreme.

^ I'm not so sure that's the cancer in you? I'm not an expert though!! but it doesn't sound or seem like anything I've witnessed before. I thought they were more indirect until they were sure of you? How much they can trust you etc?

Meh i'm direct. I'll approach ,eye you down and make u all fuzzy inside. I overide the indirectness. Think i have virgo or something in there or its just my hot blooded self.

Posted by dirtymelodies

Posted by Kim31
I'm confident then shy, express interest then stay at a distance. Viscious cycle. 🙂

This. This is exactly what I have experienced with cancer men.

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Yup. My Cancer man does this too.