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How do you ask Cancer guy for a break?
^^^^^ yurp!
But if you want to be polite just give a heads up. You don't owe him anything.
But if you want to be polite just give a heads up. You don't owe him anything.
Posted by KoniuchaaYea, I can understand that. He doesnt do that like he used to on the beginning stages. Now if we have a disagreement or whatever its more like a day or two. But I still feel like I need more time, for whatever reason. Idk
If a guy is just disappearing, I certainly wouldn't be asking his permission for a break.
Posted by kissmygritsOk cool that works. Thanks!
^^^^^ yurp!
But if you want to be polite just give a heads up. You don't owe him anything.
No problem sweet thang!
You should be asking yourself if he is worth pursuing or continuing a "relationship" with - I use that term loosely. I can tell you like the guy, but you should want to spend a lot of time with the person you LOVE.
It appears he is more or less bringing you down and not being considerate with his whole "weeks of disappearing."
It appears he is more or less bringing you down and not being considerate with his whole "weeks of disappearing."
Posted by takemeawayThank you. ☺ï¸
You should be asking yourself if he is worth pursuing or continuing a "relationship" with - I use that term loosely. I can tell you like the guy, but you should want to spend a lot of time with the person you LOVE.
It appears he is more or less bringing you down and not being considerate with his whole "weeks of disappearing."
In the beginning we had the issues of disappearing, now not so much. Usually its not more than a day or so, but yea..I feel like I just need some time. I will figure it out. We are long distance right now as well so that adds on top of it.
we cancers start out disappearing for a lot of time but reduce the amount as we get closer. if you need time i'm sure he'll be fine so long as he knows you're not going anywhere, which he probably does.
How do you disappear for a day? I mean, unless you live together is it a requirement that you exchange communication every single day? 365 days out of the year?
Posted by rabidtalkerThats what I was thinking. Thanks!
we cancers start out disappearing for a lot of time but reduce the amount as we get closer. if you need time i'm sure he'll be fine so long as he knows you're not going anywhere, which he probably does.
Posted by GennieI agree... me personally I dont have to talk everyday. More into the quality of the interaction/communication really than how many times a day or whatever.
How do you disappear for a day? I mean, unless you live together is it a requirement that you exchange communication every single day? 365 days out of the year?
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