How do you ban people?

Let's say someone starts a thread about Cancer men, what is the procedure for banning them forever?

People would abuse it, but we wouldn't have to handle all these topics about these damn Cancer men. :mad:

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If something annoys you so....turn around and walk away....its much easier!....=)

You guys are so effin cute!

Hissy honey, here is how you would delete your own thread:


there is a drop down window at the very bottom right hand corner of every thread with a default message that says "select if necessary". You would click on the arrow, select "suggest topic removal" and then hit the "flag" button next to it. 🙂

Moments after, your thread will still appear on the board but with a line going across the title and anyone who clicks on the thread will be taken to a screen that says "this topic has been removed by PurHiss (topic creator)".

This is how topics are 'removed' by dxp members. When a topic goes "poof" as in like the shit never existed on the board in the first place, best believe somebody sent a personal complaint to the 'gods' and made them perform a little magic. 😉

I hear u Mr. Crabby... I'm going to sound like a cookie monster but lately this forum seems to be filled with dummies with mental issues. Lots of projection unto others and immaturity. More than I've seen before which is disappointing. One of these nuts by the name of deb363 even emailed me some craziness. After I blasted her in my response, I blocked her from contacting me. I'm grown and I don't play with children. I actually stopped visiting for a while because there was some borderline psychos posting really idiotic threads. If its offensive generally flag it and see who joins in. Or like me, just don't visit this site too much. Or not at all(and believe me I'm close...)

Posted by PurrHiss

Posted by missscorp
If something annoys you so....turn around and walk away....its much easier!....=)

Because many of the questions are just SO silly and people should either post about their problems in one thread or on the Relationship & Astrology board. A lof of us are just tired of seeing 5 new threads each day with questions like, "My Cancer boyfriend wore a red shirt on our date last night. DOES THIS MEAN HE'S MAD AT ME?!?!?1111"

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LOL!

How about the crabbies gang up to talk about a fun subject in these threads instead? 🙂

Posted by MoonBunny

Posted by PurrHiss

Posted by missscorp
If something annoys you so....turn around and walk away....its much easier!....=)

Because many of the questions are just SO silly and people should either post about their problems in one thread or on the Relationship & Astrology board. A lof of us are just tired of seeing 5 new threads each day with questions like, "My Cancer boyfriend wore a red shirt on our date last night. DOES THIS MEAN HE'S MAD AT ME?!?!?1111"

-cracks up-

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....hahaha! That IS really funny!!!lmai! Wait! Mine wore a grey shirt yesterday! What does that mean?? Hahaha!!!

Yes, their enthusiasm and vibrant participation is proof of that.

Posted by mr.crabby
Yes, their enthusiasm and vibrant participation is proof of that.

LMAO

This board would get no traffic if it wasn't for the bitter pumped and dumped women who are chasing Cancer men.

arent we special!! :p

So why exactly is it such a problem to deal with cancer guys? I am a cancer male, I don't think I am all THAT complicated...hmmmm

Those posting something here generally have no one they feel could or can understand them...like myself...I posted something coz I actually trusted your views more seeing as you're 'like-minded'...Each to their own?How about having fortitude to examine your preference on the ??_ stone of others...You may don't have the need or desire to vent and seek understanding like others do...if seeking that here is deemed stupid or immature?Why?

Posted by pisceanpisces

Posted by incandescentcancer
So why exactly is it such a problem to deal with cancer guys? I am a cancer male, I don't think I am all THAT complicated...hmmmm

What I have learnt from you here /and in my life/ my conclusion is: you are too human. :-) people absolutely forgot honesty and other human values in this rushing world and they just cannot believe they exist. Minds are full of mediasheet and roles,people do not sense lies...sometimes they want you to lie and then get angry if they found. most people are selfish to watch for their partners strength or weakness or emotional needs. and I am getting too dull...but no, the problem is not in your zodiac. It is in somewhere in a black power created by people's mind.

This is one of the reasons why they cannot believe what they see.

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Are you saying Cancers are too human? I am missing the point I think...

Posted by pisceanpisces

I am trying to say that your feelings are too REAL,and probably too deep for many other signs. Not for everyone of course,just generally. And your imagination is also more vivid than other's. Today I was talking to a cancer guy and told him to tell me everything that comes into his mind about my saying. and that was amazing... lots of vivid pics..

Ahhh I see. As Pisces you should be able to relate to it better than most signs I would say.

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Posted by ShellShock
Those posting something here generally have no one they feel could or can understand them...like myself...I posted something coz I actually trusted your views more seeing as you're 'like-minded'...Each to their own?How about having fortitude to examine your preference on the ??_ stone of others...You may don't have the need or desire to vent and seek understanding like others do...if seeking that here is deemed stupid or immature?Why?

Hey,do not exaggerate. Cancers are talking about the whining threads,not genuine pains.

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So finding yourself confused is not tortuous?Real pain?I'm exaggerating but maybe the ones 'complaining'(better than whining it seems) are underestimating the person's feelings....Just saying!

Posted by pisceanpisces

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by pisceanpisces

I am trying to say that your feelings are too REAL,and probably too deep for many other signs. Not for everyone of course,just generally. And your imagination is also more vivid than other's. Today I was talking to a cancer guy and told him to tell me everything that comes into his mind about my saying. and that was amazing... lots of vivid pics..

Ahhh I see. As Pisces you should be able to relate to it better than most signs I would say.

I do. If you Cancers paint a horse, I will ride. Haha... just tried to be objective /what pisces never do/ to answer your question.

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Hahaha....that's why in my opinion Pisces / Cancer is a pretty good natural match 🙂.

Posted by pisceanpisces

ShellShock, I hope Cancers will also react (I am just a treeefff...pisces..).
Do not look at this as an attack.
Crabby opened this thread probably because he (and they) are fed up with (an now I am exaggerating) this:
"- Oh, help me, I broke with my Cancer man/woman 5 times and he/she did not come back to me. I wrote them 500 messages but I am not clingy at all... Is he/she still in his/her shell? I do not understand."
A Cancer's helpful answer about this thread: "well, move on."
Reaction: "you are COLD!" and probably add: "but I am thinking of him every day, so when he finally connected I told him to treeff..off." and the circle starts again... moreover if people say, "oh, and they always come back".
Like Christmas, you know. No...

So,okay, there are common characteristics but after all these they (or I would feel) too COMMON, BORING and you know, just like USED. If Cancers board is existing only for giving advice to people. Just because they are "more sensitive" than others. Now, these "sensitive" people are fed up with all of their "sensitiveness" sensitively.

So it is really hard, and tiring to follow and react each of these if you want to live your life happily and not responding these restrictive threads. It is good to help people but beside, the sun is shining and everything should be colourful. This is not colourful.

By the way: Have you heard about a person here, who was in pain, Cancers helped and then

Bingo...most people actually don't listen to any advice they get on the cancer board, they just do stupid things and make it even worse...

Posted by pisceanpisces

Posted by LunarMaiden
This board would get no traffic if it wasn't for the bitter pumped and dumped women who are chasing Cancer men.

There are some exceptions. People who just simply like communicating with Cancers.

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Those are my favorites. 😛

I see your where you're coming from Pisceanpisces...And yes bad habit to see everything as a personal attack...I guess that was provoked because I seeked advice,I was genuinely confused and I took heed of the advice.
I've accepted my lot as a cancer(as if I have a choice lol)however it's a continues process of self improvement..My replies came from that point..I thought everyone else wanted the 'help'....You know more about this board so point taken!
For what it's worth I do think this is a great platform...Liberated me in a way...Sense of 'belonging' no longer an outcast,the weird analytical,day dreamer that never stops thinking lol I am not alone awesomeness!

Posted by BikerCh1ck

Posted by incandescentcancer
So why exactly is it such a problem to deal with cancer guys? I am a cancer male, I don't think I am all THAT complicated...hmmmm

you are sensitive.. label says: "handle with care" "don't wash above 30 degrees"

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That's such an obvious and sweeping generalization. Other planetary positions have a huge impact on how each Sun in Cancer behaves.

Posted by BikerCh1ck
I had couple of cancers friends and a x-bf that was cancer and they all had something that was the same: one should be aware of their feelings at all times. This is not bad as it helps anyone interacting with a cancer to perfect their social skills. It helped me a lot.
However, for someone that is not a water sign and has never interacted with water signs, cancers seem very different than the rest of the people.
Once you get to know cancers then things are easy.. until though you get to that point you can understand them it might take some time.

Well, similar idiosyncrasies can be attributed to every sign. It's not that Cancers deserve special criticism. And isn't it also normal in all relationships for people to settle down a bit once they get to know eachother a bit more?

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by BikerCh1ck
I had couple of cancers friends and a x-bf that was cancer and they all had something that was the same: one should be aware of their feelings at all times. This is not bad as it helps anyone interacting with a cancer to perfect their social skills. It helped me a lot.
However, for someone that is not a water sign and has never interacted with water signs, cancers seem very different than the rest of the people.
Once you get to know cancers then things are easy.. until though you get to that point you can understand them it might take some time.

Well, similar idiosyncrasies can be attributed to every sign. It's not that Cancers deserve special criticism. And isn't it also normal in all relationships for people to settle down a bit once they get to know eachother a bit more?

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exactly i have some air sign friends who are emotional as well. sometimes i feel like an air sign around them. the generalization about cancers being too sensitive and all is a load of crap. i m emotional but rarely and that too i dont showcase my feelings outside... its all pretty much about how i feel than what i show.

Cancerians is just special lol the misunderstood,the weird and wacky!We have the best of both worlds...Super sensitive yet super tough...People will always look at a cancer with raised eyebrows...Other signs have their own qualities yes but nothing comes close to being humane than a Cancer...Think about it..We experience so many different levels of emotions and thoughtfulness..A true evolved Cancer would agree that they experience everything there is to explore...The good and bad...Open to almost anything just for the sake of knowing!

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Right.. boys... Me personally don't find the cancerian male personality bad. On the contrary!
Except my ex the rest of cancers that I met were amazing people and I wish I meet more of them.
Yes there are some exceptions and there are some planetary infuences etc. You are right on that.
However, the sun is quite a big influence and you will find similarities.
Not everyone is going to understand cancers.
If in life you only get friends and never enemies you are not important enough.

Fair enough,cheers 🙂

Posted by incandescentcancer

Posted by BikerCh1ck
I had couple of cancers friends and a x-bf that was cancer and they all had something that was the same: one should be aware of their feelings at all times. This is not bad as it helps anyone interacting with a cancer to perfect their social skills. It helped me a lot.
However, for someone that is not a water sign and has never interacted with water signs, cancers seem very different than the rest of the people.
Once you get to know cancers then things are easy.. until though you get to that point you can understand them it might take some time.

Well, similar idiosyncrasies can be attributed to every sign. It's not that Cancers deserve special criticism. And isn't it also normal in all relationships for people to settle down a bit once they get to know eachother a bit more?

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Cancers deserve special spanking.
For real, they are asking for it.
So what are you cancers whining about now? That people are fucking annoyed with your antics?
thats no wonder at all

Posted by mr.crabby
Let's say someone starts a thread about Cancer men, what is the procedure for banning them forever?

Baby squirrel, you is a sexy mother fucker. 😉

i have an avi with a Cancer Sun man on it. Black flowing trenchcoat, hair flying, looking out beyond....he looks like he's thinking of sneaky stuff to do.

Posted by silentkiller
Yo, I hear ya, and I have certainly written some dumb ass crap on here, BUT - in my defense, and all the other woman/girls (never any Guys, what, are there no gay crabs— Hmmm, interesting!) defens I guess - letting go, moving on, accepting Things are over has NEVER EVER been so hard for me to do, but with this cancer. I think you Guys are really able to give some goooooood kind of lovin??, and that's hard to let go of, let go of all hope, you know?! A lot of Things with cancer can feel like a game, feelings not being said out loud and what not, so it can be very difficult for the other person to see; okay now it's REALLY over, it's not just this guy being hurt or scared or whatever.

We could also start a topic about why apperently a lot of cancer Guys attrackt totally insecure women, why just don't get it?!?! 😉 (sorry, couldn't resist😄)

allllriiighty i'm gonna bite. 'scuse me? My husband is 4th house sun/venus. And i'm dominant earth so there is NO insecuring going on with this lady. Maybe in other aspects of my life but in romance and love with my hubby Nooooooo sirreeee. You won't see me asking, "why why why oh why did my man do this?"

Lol. I couldnt resist either. *shakes fist* But at least this made me Lol.

Posted by silentkiller
- oops Again:
and write some stupid shit, was what I wrote.

BUT I agree: the problems are mostly on the women and not the crab men who's actions are being questioned.

you know when i read online about crab men and their likes, it's always about Mothers!! what the heck?

You gotta love the momma. *nods* Then there'd be no more of this, "help! my crab man is making me confused!" it'd be more, "help! too much sexing!" lmao.

I'm terrible today. (shakes head)

Posted by mr.crabby
Let's say someone starts a thread about Cancer men, what is the procedure for banning them forever?

The internet is thankfully the true frontier of freedom of speech and expression of beliefs.

However, you can always team up with Dickbreath and aspire to join the Gulag Guard Corps in North Korea. That way, you can actually harass, arrest, beat and shoot people who annoy you instead of merely "banning them forever."

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by mr.crabby
Let's say someone starts a thread about Cancer men, what is the procedure for banning them forever?

The internet is thankfully the true frontier of freedom of speech and expression of beliefs.

However, you can always team up with Dickbreath and aspire to join the Gulag Guard Corps in North Korea. That way, you can actually harass, arrest, beat and shoot people who annoy you instead of merely "banning them forever."

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I would only do that to you. Have you talked to your mother yet?

Posted by BlackIndian22
EXACTLY, i agree with everyone here. These negative threads are ridiculous. I can feel every negative emotion coming from these crazy women. Yes, they don't listen to any advice we give them. Then they ask for the same advice over & over. I think they just come here to benter & for attention. They not even be real women lol. We should turn this thread back to our cave again. These trolls are the reason it's decaying

Lol.