how to fix a jealous cancer man?

My friend introduced me to his bandmate and i can say we automatically hit it off,but it was more like a virtual romance. He would do what normal cacerians would do,just talk a bit but always ,taking the initiative to communicate. After some time, i asked what our status is,coz its really my 1st time to like have a virtual thing with someone. He is a 20y.o cancer and i'm a 28 y.o leo. So even with the age gap we managed to accept eachother. I know he was very comfy with me when he started sharing personal family matters. He keeps on reassuring me that i am the girl he wants to take seriously and he loves me eventhough we haven't seen eachother personally, well except when using skype or viber,so yeah,he always says that he loves me and that i must always remember that he really loves me. Once, we got into a fight coz he has a lot of friends that are girls,and ofcourse having not really met him in person i got jealous,but after some talks we managed to fix things everything was normal again. But just recently,he got so angry and jealous coz of a certain post i did on fb,,but what he didnt know is i posted that because i got hurt and jealous of what i saw on his wall. Long story short,he deleted me on fb! And i was like wth? So i tried messaging him and he was like, "you really like that guy right? Fine go with him!" And i was like super confused bec it was just a very big misunderstanding that he made a big deal out of it. I sent him msgs and even tried calling him but he just keeps on saying the same thing,pushing me away and telling me to be with the guy. The thing is,this guy was the one who paired cancer guy and me and i dont even like him coz i love my cancer guy. Hay..i just want to fix this and be with him again..it's been 4 days,still no word from him. I gave him his space,i didnt msg or call him after our last conversation. So now,i dont know if he was really serious abt everything he said,that he loves me and everything..😢 we already made plans for the holidays and i am really eager to see him and be with him,but now,,,i really dont know what to do...

He hurt you but he didn't mean it...and you do the same thing but apparently you planned yours, if you really like this guy you wouldn't have hurt him...everyone doesn't like being a second choice... you make him feel like that with your post...but if you two would get back together the trust will never be the same...it will only get worst and it wouldn't feel love anymore 😢 it's like Satan is pushing your hearts together again xD just a waste of time... so... i suggest just leave him alone and find another guy that's right for you and compatible with your sign 🙂 don't forget to say sorry and you will just leave him alone 🙂 but ask him if you two can just be friends...he will not FORGIVE you if you don't tell him the reason why you post that thingy...be creative when you tell him that...try to lessen the negative atmosphere with how you deliver your words 🙂 go with the flow and let the destiny decide if you two will.... fall.... in.. love.... again.?

hey hey! maybe he's just testing you? or something? xD idk 🙂

I hate to say it. You screwed this up. First, you are allowing jealousy to control your emotions and you did not communicate this with each other ahead of time. My guy asked me how I handled "flirtation" as he could be without trying or female friends. BTW I am a Leo too. But like I told him, I possessive, what is mine is mine but I am not jealous. As long as you don't disrespect me or our relationship, I am cool. Plus being who I am you are going have to deal with men coming up to me and trust my loyalty. Cause it will happen. Now if you choose to overstep boundaries then I just won't waste my time, as someone else out there will want me and treat me the way I deserve to be treated.

Second, you played tit for tat. First you did it publicly(big no no),two you didn't communicate your concerns when it occurred. Showing your lack of self security and self assurance. You hurt him, and on purpose. Not good at all.

My relationship is virtual at this moment with my guy. We had a couple of cross roads, one recently. He had said something through text that hit my self security and hurt. He took it as he has allowed me to open up about relationships but I wasn't. He left it that he hated texting and he would email me when he got to work. I took the initiative and emailed him before he got to work just explaining it had nothing to do with me not wanting to open up about his past it was the way he conveyed his msg. The msg was conveyed in a way that would be a problem between us where if he worded it this way it conveyed the meaning he was trying to get across. Which he then understood where the communication breakdown was.

Key with cancer communication and keep the shit private. Don't try to make them jealous, patience and understanding. Sounds like you could have pushed him away. Being Leo, watch your insecurities.

Fuck his best friend...that should do it...