How would ypu react to this Cancers?

I have heard that Cancers are people who are most likely to put their family first. I personally have known quite a few Cancer guys who preferred marrying girls that can get along really well with their families especially their Mom.

Just for the sake of curiosity, I would like to know how would you feel if your gf/bf seems to be very family oriented too. Would you take it as a positive trait if he/she looks like a true Mommy's boy or a Daddy's girl or if the parents have quite an influence on the decisions that he/she makes.

Would you like it because you can relate to them or understand them or would it rather makes you jealous?

Sorry I meant you not ypu 🙂

I would prefer a guy that didn't have close ties to his family, particularly his mama!

Cancer here. Me and my mom is close and sister somewhat but that's it. Other family memembers I love them at a distants. My scorp is close with his family more then I am. I don't have a problem with closeness as long as they still have a mind of there own ,and the men don't act like babies.

I dated a cancer and a pisces OMG .lord nossssss I could have killed my self with that mother baby shit. One cancer dude on ower first date he didn't pick me up his mother and sister did. Then they took me over his house which confuse the hell out of me cause we suppose to hang out instead we spent four hours wit his mom and sister lauging and cracking jokes . Then we they lift we just talk shit all nite then I went home. The date wasn't a date it was weird. His family was fun but weird for me to meet them so soon . And to pick me up ooo loud.

Pisces dude him and his mom had a love hate relationship.she would verbally abuse him,she would be real nice to him on check day then treat him like shit until she need money.she was loud and just a bitch. What was sad was he would always be around her taking the abuse. Sad

The concept of a close family relationship is completely foreign to my cancer bf. He can't stand being around his family. I'm close to mine though. And while he thinks it's great - he doesn't "get" it. He doesn't get why it's important for me to get to know his family or for him to get to know mine.

I don't much care either way, tbh. I would hope everyone is close to their family, or at least some of it. If my gf is a daddy's girl, great! If she's not, w/e!

The only way it could be a problem is if you spend far more time, thought and emotion on your family than your Cancer bf/gf. We're a jealous and insecure lot, and need to be shown that we matter or we'll start believing we don't. That's bad for the relationship and for the Cancer's physical and mental health.

@ crabmoon it probably was the same dude lmao

i'm a cancer, i'm very very close to my family. however i generally don't want to mix new people with my family.. even friends! i'd only introduce them if i know that they're going to be significant in my life. so i'm pretty weirded out by all these first dates that included family.