I need my shell!

I can't find it so I'm feeling vulnerable and weak.

I need to find my shell so I can heal from some pain.

Please help.

037 what has happened. For us to help u need to explain ur problem.

Posted by Cheeseburger
What have you been up to ?

You won't believe it. I met someone, promised myself I won't cling and won't get too attached yet, but I was a goner by half the first day. Now, its over and I want to heal, but I can't seem to be able to. I can't be on my own in my inner world. There's so much chaos and so though I'm thinking about this 23/7, I'm not able to detach from life and face my emotions head on so that I can work through them.

Posted by alfabutt
037 what has happened. For us to help u need to explain ur problem.

See top.

Alpha bottom. Nice name :-)

I had to go on a fast to get over my ex boyfriend. My fast didn't last long but surprisingly it worked. Just make sure you pray while your on your fast.

Posted by canerleo101
I had to go on a fast to get over my ex boyfriend. My fast didn't last long but surprisingly it worked. Just make sure you pray while your on your fast.

Sounds good.

Except, what would I be praying about?

All things I hope for.

Thanks :-)

Posted by 037

Posted by canerleo101
I had to go on a fast to get over my ex boyfriend. My fast didn't last long but surprisingly it worked. Just make sure you pray while your on your fast.

Sounds good.

Except, what would I be praying about?

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When you pray ask God to remove this person out of your heart. (I have only did this once it was with a man that I could never fully let go of, I kept running back to him. When I finailly got serous about letting him go, this is what I did.)

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Posted by canerleo101
I had to go on a fast to get over my ex boyfriend. My fast didn't last long but surprisingly it worked. Just make sure you pray while your on your fast.

Sounds good.

Except, what would I be praying about?

When you pray ask God to remove this person out of your heart. (I have only did this once it was with a man that I could never fully let go of, I kept running back to him. When I finailly got serous about letting him go, this is what I did.)

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I have been asking for that already, but I hope it works better with a conscious fast.

Thank you. 🙂

Maxbe there is another reason why you cant let go? Maybe you should give it a last try and start SLOW!? I dont know what happened to you two but maybe you shouldn't crawl back. Maybe you should give it one last shot

Posted by aurora

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Posted by Cheeseburger
What have you been up to ?

You won't believe it. I met someone, promised myself I won't cling and won't get too attached yet, but I was a goner by half the first day. Now, its over and I want to heal, but I can't seem to be able to. I can't be on my own in my inner world. There's so much chaos and so though I'm thinking about this 23/7, I'm not able to detach from life and face my emotions head on so that I can work through them.

let yourself think about this even 24/7 if you have to. don't pressure yourself to heal, it will just make the process even longer. let it all out and of course it will pass.

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I hope so. I mean, I know it will eventually but I wish it will just pass already.

Thanks, Aurora 🙂

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Maxbe there is another reason why you cant let go? Maybe you should give it a last try and start SLOW!? I dont know what happened to you two but maybe you shouldn't crawl back. Maybe you should give it one last shot

You sound just like my Cancer Sun, Cap Moon bestie! lol

It's wishful thinking though. It feels like he hates me now anyway. .

The hardest thing to swallow is having that intense bond with someone and knowing in your soul that life with them would've been perfect but having to watch it slip away because of a major fuck up on your doing. I want to kick myself in the forehead. If I just put my pride aside and been real with her we could've had a shot