Is it possible to recapture a cancer man attention

There's this cancer man that I'm oh so very fond of.

We were out drjnking together with another friend, one thing led to another and my cancer and I slept together.
I want to add here too, that he mentioned something about doing it again.

Fast forward and I've noticed a change in his behaviour.

Just little things before that he doesn't do now.
Like tapping my shoulder when he walks past, or catching him looking at me from the corner of my eye (that one hurts the most)

I've asked the same thing in a couple of different websites, and everyone has said its because I put out too easily/soon.

Do you think mentioning the fact that he's the 2nd person I've ever slept with in my 20 years, and that o slept with him because I genially like him will make a difference in anything.
Like if I really just make it clear that he's the first person I've slept with on a whim, and even then it's something I thought about a lot before hand.

I don't want to move on and forget about him, because I feel like there could be something great between us, and the fact that we've already had sex shouldn't play a part in its demise.

So again I ask, is there anyway to recapture his attention, set things right? Start anew?

PLEASE SAY YES!

Lol yes there is but it depends. He probably lost interest in you because your mystery is solved...because your mystery isn't solved and he's not trying to know anymore because he's tired of trying....because your sex sucked...I don't think cancers care about how soon they have sex because if they choose to have sex early it's because they know that the person is the one or worth it because they can feel it. Maybe your not interesting enough or he thinks you don't like him or he saw you see him looking and it embarrassed him so now he will try his best not to look or you make him feel bad for looking. What do you do? Talk to him

Posted by StarChild63
Lol yes there is but it depends. He probably lost interest in you because your mystery is solved...because your mystery isn't solved and he's not trying to know anymore because he's tired of trying....because your sex sucked...I don't think cancers care about how soon they have sex because if they choose to have sex early it's because they know that the person is the one or worth it because they can feel it. Maybe your not interesting enough or he thinks you don't like him or he saw you see him looking and it embarrassed him so now he will try his best not to look or you make him feel bad for looking. What do you do? Talk to him

He actually knows very little about me, so there's still a lot of mystery, personality wise to discover.
I probably sucked at sex, but (and I'm sorry if this is too much information) he did mention the fact that I was quite perfect at oral.

I've never outrightly looked at him whilst he was looking at me, it's just something I've noticed from my peripheral vision.

Maybe it's the sex but maybe not cuz if your perfect with oral he can work that and make you perfect all around. And he saw you looking even if you thought you were slick. They see every little detail without letting people notice they noticed the details.

So is there a way to recapture his attention?
Will just being very sweet and approachable be enough ?

Is there any way to recapture a cancers attention?

Sweet and approachable only gets you in the door. Blunt and in your face conversations will do it.

What do you mean by blunt and in your face?
I want to get his attention again, not scare him away lol

If you're talking about just being blunt and asking him on a date or how he feels about me etc, if it turns out that he just really doesn't like me, and turns me down that would do terrible things to my already fragile self esteem

Posted by NorthWest
don't ask him out or tell him how you feel lol

i'd just ignore him. go about your life like nothing happened. it'll make him curious. lol 😛

+1000
Go about your day as you did before you hooked up with him.