Is love enough?

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acp8705
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Ok, this doesnt really pertain to me but i'd like any opinions anyway..

Say if a couple has little money and no stable home but they love eachother completely, have a strong suport network and are responsible should they bring a child in the world?


My personal opinion is no... they should think about the childs needs and stability it would require and u shouldnt have to rely on family or friends..


anyway i know that this is debateable so lets hear everyones opinions on the matter
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semperfibabe
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I would like it's consider a selfish act. I know love can conquers all but sometimes realtiy calls. Bearing a child is not that easy at all. Not to mention you have to be financial stable, but also emotionally and physically ready for the challenge. Afterall, it's a precious innocent life you are talking about so things base on impulse usually is not wise at all. You have to plan it...that'll be the wiser and best choice,personally I belive, just for the kid's own good. Let's say that, however, "accident" happens that you happened to be a mom/dad overnite, then you'll have to be strong and stand up for the challenge and be ready for your little ones. Aferall, it's your responsiblity. Good luck
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misscancer2u
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Good topic acp!
Me personally been there done that and if i knew then what i know now i think i would have waited till i was married and or finacially stable. Children are conceived from love but love does not buy pampers or formula. And being capable of taking care of your own responsiblities is what being a parent is really about. Not relying on others to support your child.
Is love enough? I have to say No
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Now seeing it from another point of view...many new couples start off, without much to their name, and still we hear how couples have their primogen in their first year of marriage. I come from a family with five children, and my parents just worked their way up. They started with pretty much nothing (ok, a few pots and a coffee machine) and from then on it just got better. I guess its also a matter of, even if you dont have much now, you at least have a plan, and a backup plan to work your way up.
In the other hand, I dont think it's right to bring a child not knowing how you're gonna support him/her. It would only become a burden instead of the joy its supposed to bring.

my two cents on that