I've Come to a Conclusion...

That most Cancers have this slut mentality, we think more than we act out our inner slut but if we ever do, Cancers go 100% . And with the emotional clingyness, it's a two way thing. That, it's not just the Cancer acting clingy, it's that other people feel soooo comfortable in all that emotion they refuse to let go.

Example..My Cancer friend was sleeping with her Gemini ex, while dating another Gemini and sleeping with a Libra. Now she's married to the Libra, 3years and counting. The Gemini ex(first) still says he'd love her till his dying day. I mean he sends her Christian Louboutins for her birthday every year, she's in London, he travels. But wherever he is, he never forgets!!

AGREED!

Posted by Arielle83
Yeah I know I feel more sexual than I let out.

When I was young, I just wanted sex and not relationships because I don't want to get close.

My closest cancer gf is 21, and she's doing the same rounds like how I did when I was young.

Just wanting to experiment and loving sex and then disappearing into the night...

Mine was 21 also, at that time. At 21 I was no different..lol...that age though.

Posted by MarsGodess
AGREED!

🙂

Lol *smiles wolfishly*

Sadly i agree with this, as much as i pride myself on being a gent, i can never turn down the gentle touch of annother person when single, even if its a bad idea going 20 toes with ur ex or a freind that youve known for years apon years.

I think people have this impression that we are all homey, clean, and 'pure' in a sense, then get surprised when they find out just exactly how much we LOVE sex. Some people totally flip when they find out how far down our rabbit holes go. Just might be what draws in the Scorpios. They love that shit. But I don't think it makes us slutty unless we are unethical about how we get laid.

However, I think a lot of Cancers are very vulnerable to temptation, especially if someone is giving what we aren't getting.

Posted by Crabra
I think people have this impression that we are all homey, clean, and 'pure' in a sense, then get surprised when they find out just exactly how much we LOVE sex. Some people totally flip when they find out how far down our rabbit holes go. Just might be what draws in the Scorpios. They love that shit. But I don't think it makes us slutty unless we are unethical about how we get laid.

However, I think a lot of Cancers are very vulnerable to temptation, especially if someone is giving what we aren't getting.

The ethics is what makes all the difference between an average Cancer and a sign like Libra.

Scorpios love the puzzle...

Posted by Crabra
I think people have this impression that we are all homey, clean, and 'pure' in a sense, then get surprised when they find out just exactly how much we LOVE sex. Some people totally flip when they find out how far down our rabbit holes go. Just might be what draws in the Scorpios. They love that shit. But I don't think it makes us slutty unless we are unethical about how we get laid.

However, I think a lot of Cancers are very vulnerable to temptation, especially if someone is giving what we aren't getting.

The last part i agree with you completely, and the thing about is that ii i give in into temptation long enough i get out of control then i realize that i am out of control and decide to just run with it. This year i ahven't been "touched" and im very proud, last year was crazy where temptation was concerned but im getting my shit together 🙂

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Ya I get what you're saying and I think like that

But dude was saying we're so emotionally weak that we throw ourselves at men for validation

Doing something cause you want and doing something cause you're insecure are two different things

Don't twist my words around. I never said, or even implied that we're emotionally weak. Stop being such an eccentric hell cat and stirring up shit where it doesn't need to be.

Posted by MarsGodess

Posted by Crabra
I think people have this impression that we are all homey, clean, and 'pure' in a sense, then get surprised when they find out just exactly how much we LOVE sex. Some people totally flip when they find out how far down our rabbit holes go. Just might be what draws in the Scorpios. They love that shit. But I don't think it makes us slutty unless we are unethical about how we get laid.

However, I think a lot of Cancers are very vulnerable to temptation, especially if someone is giving what we aren't getting.

The last part i agree with you completely, and the thing about is that ii i give in into temptation long enough i get out of control then i realize that i am out of control and decide to just run with it. This year i ahven't been "touched" and im very proud, last year was crazy where temptation was concerned but im getting my shit together 🙂

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"Touched"....how sweet...

Glad you're getting your shit together, it's necessary plus you'd feel so validated. 🙂

Posted by Crabra

Posted by SensitiveBlues
Ya I get what you're saying and I think like that

But dude was saying we're so emotionally weak that we throw ourselves at men for validation

Doing something cause you want and doing something cause you're insecure are two different things

Don't twist my words around. I never said, or even implied that we're emotionally weak. Stop being such an eccentric hell cat and stirring up shit where it doesn't need to be.

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She's defending our honor as women and Cancers, can't hate that. 😛

Posted by Namy

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
Ya I get what you're saying and I think like that

But dude was saying we're so emotionally weak that we throw ourselves at men for validation

Doing something cause you want and doing something cause you're insecure are two different things

Don't twist my words around. I never said, or even implied that we're emotionally weak. Stop being such an eccentric hell cat and stirring up shit where it doesn't need to be.

She's defending our honor as women and Cancers, can't hate that. 😛

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That's fine, but I know SB reads my posts, and should know that I defend our "emotional weakness" with brawn and steel. It's the last thing I would say about any Cancerian. She doesn't need to defend female cancers from me 🙂

As a cancer man i can't say it's not about sex for me,i want serious relationships,never had one night stand,all women i made love 2 were important in my life ,somehow it's a treetrunk for me,when i'm not in a relationship,i might see a good looking girl,and think i want to sleep with her,but once i can get in her pants and i know i can have her, i don't longer want her anymore,knowing that i could have had her feels good enough and i feel satisfied,tho the girl might feel lost after i do this,this might be my sagittarius moon playing ,but somehow never went all the way only for sex,unless she had some mystery in her and was ready to offer something more than sex, in one word curiosity,curiosity was the reason i slept with 32yr old woman when i was 19yrs old,might sound crazy,but loved the experience, if there's anything that can get a single cancer to have sex with you it's curiosity and something mystical, if you can spark that,he will def make love to you, if he's single😄

Posted by rakac
As a cancer man i can't say it's not about sex for me,i want serious relationships,never had one night stand,all women i made love 2 were important in my life ,somehow it's a treetrunk for me,when i'm not in a relationship,i might see a good looking girl,and think i want to sleep with her,but once i can get in her pants and i know i can have her, i don't longer want her anymore,knowing that i could have had her feels good enough and i feel satisfied,tho the girl might feel lost after i do this,this might be my sagittarius moon playing ,but somehow never went all the way only for sex,unless she had some mystery in her and was ready to offer something more than sex, in one word curiosity,curiosity was the reason i slept with 32yr old woman when i was 19yrs old,might sound crazy,but loved the experience, if there's anything that can get a single cancer to have sex with you it's curiosity and something mystical, if you can spark that,he will def make love to you, if he's single😄

How was it? I always wondered, sometimes very rarely though. I'd wish I was a guy so I could experience sleeping with an older woman. As you say, curiosity plus It happens alottt.

Not 50's old, late 30's.

I don't believe in one night stands though, like if it happens it happens but I don't trust it.

Posted by Namy
That most Cancers have this slut mentality, we think more than we act out our inner slut but if we ever do, Cancers go 100% . And with the emotional clingyness, it's a two way thing. That, it's not just the Cancer acting clingy, it's that other people feel soooo comfortable in all that emotion they refuse to let go.

Example..My Cancer friend was sleeping with her Gemini ex, while dating another Gemini and sleeping with a Libra. Now she's married to the Libra, 3years and counting. The Gemini ex(first) still says he'd love her till his dying day. I mean he sends her Christian Louboutins for her birthday every year, she's in London, he travels. But wherever he is, he never forgets!!

Has she had any sexual trauma in her life?

I'm a slut in my head.
When I move to Europe, I will fly my freak flag.

Posted by Namy

Posted by MarsGodess

Posted by Crabra
I think people have this impression that we are all homey, clean, and 'pure' in a sense, then get surprised when they find out just exactly how much we LOVE sex. Some people totally flip when they find out how far down our rabbit holes go. Just might be what draws in the Scorpios. They love that shit. But I don't think it makes us slutty unless we are unethical about how we get laid.

However, I think a lot of Cancers are very vulnerable to temptation, especially if someone is giving what we aren't getting.

The last part i agree with you completely, and the thing about is that ii i give in into temptation long enough i get out of control then i realize that i am out of control and decide to just run with it. This year i ahven't been "touched" and im very proud, last year was crazy where temptation was concerned but im getting my shit together 🙂

"Touched"....how sweet...

Glad you're getting your shit together, it's necessary plus you'd feel so validated. 🙂

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Thanks 🙂

Ok this is funny topic because in my head I am having sex with different partners and a sexual beast but in reality hell noooo . I need a stable relationship . Sex is more of a deep relationship connection for me.

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by Namy
That most Cancers have this slut mentality, we think more than we act out our inner slut but if we ever do, Cancers go 100% . And with the emotional clingyness, it's a two way thing. That, it's not just the Cancer acting clingy, it's that other people feel soooo comfortable in all that emotion they refuse to let go.

Example..My Cancer friend was sleeping with her Gemini ex, while dating another Gemini and sleeping with a Libra. Now she's married to the Libra, 3years and counting. The Gemini ex(first) still says he'd love her till his dying day. I mean he sends her Christian Louboutins for her birthday every year, she's in London, he travels. But wherever he is, he never forgets!!

Has she had any sexual trauma in her life?

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Oh, the first Gemini was her First everything, they were together 3years, he was cheating all through those years but she lovedd him. She was a barrister a 22(British system), married, has a baby now. She's winning in every sense of the word in comparison to her ex's.
Both Gems dropped out of school. She directed all her anger and pain, towards making her self better, She's has her Venus, mars, Jupiter in leo.

Posted by tiziani
Emotional fusion vs actual commitment

There's a difference, the lines are so blurred. A general mistake i think not specific to Cancers.