Left by my Cancer love

Dear All,

what would make a cancer man stop loving you and just leave you like you've never shared any feelings? what would make him cheat and lie to you, and dump you and keep coming back to you after all? I am a broken heart Libra - just a 3 days old dumpee and it hurts me to dead. Do you have any advice of how to win my baby's heart again? I am hurt, I am sorry.

peace

I don't want to pry into your affairs, but is there anyway you can share more details about what happened? It is hard to draw any conclusions on this little bit of information. You are a Libra and he is a Cancer male? Sounds like a mellow match made in heaven!!! What happened, baby—

Oh, I am so sorry! Been there, felt that way. Once with a Cancer man that I adored for almost 3 years...found out he was seeing many women, he became very distant...found out he had secretly gotten married and was still talking to me. Talk about a shock! Broke my heart into! Then I allow myself to start caring again, and guess what...he is another moody Cancer man. Been seeing him for 8 months, been going great until here recently. Now is is being distant and "something" is not right. He has hurt my feelings. They seem so loyal and REAL! One thing to remember..."If it's meant to be...It will be"

I am a cancer man, and I am so shocked when I read the behavior of some. I can't imagine myself, having deep feelings for someone, and then cheat or leave them. Sounds like these cancer man are immature and unstable. Not all cancer men are like this, trust me!

Dear Cancers,

thanks for your warm words. I've been dating my lovely baby for 8 months. It was a distant relationship - he was in Boston, I was in DC.. We've spent all our weekends together, we were crazy for each other, and found each other adorable. I knew he was moody and oversensitive, but was willing to cope with everything, coz I loved him madly. He moved to NYC to work on his PHD and that's when it started. He said he no longer sees me in his life, he said he is doing me a favor by leaving me, he said i deserve something better, and he just left.. He said he has someone else in his life.. I am devastated. Have had a Cancer love before, and remember how devoted and honest they were.. Love your sign. Can't believe that's happening, and I am hurthing. Please, help me with a cure..

That's me again - just logged on diferrent pc.

peace

Hi,

Sorry, I hit enter! One thing is...I know it hurts you, the things he said. At least he did say something! Most men, well, My 2 best Cancer Men...they just don't say anything at all. Your left to wonder or find out things from others. They DO NOT like confrontation or talking about their feelings. I am still involved with one, care deeply for him, but still SCARED to TRUST him. Both Cancer men...the best and worst out of any relationships I have ever had! I hope you're feeling better and time will help heal the pain. Just keep writing and talking out your feelings...It does help!

I am a cancer man, and after reading this, my heart breaks in half. The only thing I could say is that, when a cancer really does love someone, this "met someone else" nonsense isn't even an option, trust me! We don't look for a "substitite", or the "next best thing". I am really shocked by this dude, and disappointed. Keep talking about it -

Dear 166,

have so much to tell you about what happened, about cancers, about love in general...

From what you're saying up there, I can only conclude that he has never loved me. That is. I am learning to live without him.

I have been looking for a Cancer love since my biggest love (Cancer again) died in an accident 5 years ago. I am 28 now..

I was in heaven when I met my man, and deeply in love. I guess it's not a question of signs, it's personality.. Just tell me I'll be fine.

God, these stories touch my heart! You have NO idea!!!!

I feel for you!
You'll be more than fine!! You're already fine!!! You have a GOOD head on your shoulders and I am so sorry to hear of your loss; time takes care of things for us! I know those are only mere words, but you will see. Hold on to hope and faith and try to be happy and 'enjoy life for every moment!!! Live in the moment, and don't worry about tommorrow it will take care of itself. 'What will be will be.'

Love from a Libra

Left Alone,

Hi!

I can honestly say, I do not understand the men today!!! Ihave never dealt with a man that just disappers and leaves you to wonder if they are dead or alive. Excuse me, yes I have. My ex-husband (Gemini w/Cancer rising) did this. Here is my story.

He left for a job, supposeldy, and never even let me know if he was ok! He sent of his over to check on me and they knew what he was doing, but they never told me what was going on. I was worried sick!!!! I called every hospital and jail in the entire state!

Then I had a
premintion. I saw him in his truck,driving to a certain location,at a certian time. It was his girlfriends!!!
I had the road and even the address of the house!! Iconfronted him and told him..."please, I want the truth because I want to know if my physcic abilities were correct." I told him I wouldn't be angry....which was a lie!!!! But yes, it was true! Other than him, who was a Gemini, I have never had a man do me like he did,abandon me.

I hope to God I never have to go through it again, EVER!!!

PS: I called my ex-husband's
'girlfiend' and told her he had a STD's and so did I,and she better not sleep with him!! That was a desperate attempt from
A desperate woman! She ended up getting pregnant and we divorced, but after she was done breaking up a 10 year marriage, she moved on! She did to him, exaclty what he did to me.
Can't say I feel good about it, but
that is the story.
I know that my ex still is loves me and he knows that he will probably never know a love as true as mine...but he screwed up and there is only so much a woman can take!!!

I hope your man is at least man enough to tell you what is going on! I feel for you and it hurts like hell!!!!!
Men can be jerks!
S.

second paragraph should read --he sent his friends over to check on me.
Sorry!
S.

Thanks, dear, for sharing your story. It's a bit different with us.. my babe did tell me he no longer sees me in his life, he doesn't want to get too involved with me while at school (the next 8 years - md/phd), and he briefly mentioned something he actually may hava someone.. i am in a stage of my life that i don't want to waste time in dead end relationships - i am just completing my mba, and was ready to move with him in NYC and have a future with him by the end of this year. I guess he got scared, or it's just not me.. BTW I have a rising Cancer, and an ascendent Cancer.. Friends, he is two years younger than me, do you think that may be a reason? Without being modest - I look very well, but could he had left me because of the age difference? Well, I have to learn to see my life without him..

Hi 🙂

I wouldn' think that a 2 year difference would change anything, no matter how old you are (and I don't believe you are even 30 yet?). But it is like you said, at least he was decent enough to let you know, that is all any human can do and that is very hard to do, because he knew he would hurt you. But sometimes you hurt the ones you love and no doubt he cared a lot about you. Hold on to that thought and the good times that you had with him, and eventually the right person will come around. Keep yourself busy with your friends, I'm not sure how long you have been with him, but if it was less than 5 years, in no time you will move forward 🙂. Time heals. Be good to yourself and others OK. GOOD LUCK 🙂))))

I am 28, he is 26. The world is dark now, but thanks for your warm words.

Hang in there sunshine! I took me 10 months to get over my relationship. Reach out to all who will listen and not chastise or criticize you for your feelings. I will help support you and nurture you back!

Men are men it doesn't matter if they are cancer, Virgos etc... Remember once a dog always a dog. Don't waste your time on this immature loser and move on girl!

Libra,

I just lost a very long paragraph somehow when I was writing to you on this subject. Anyhow, I am going to keep it as short as possible because I just spent the last 15 minutes writing to you abot your Cancer friend. Libra you should thank God that Cancer has moved on. He has ridded himself of some more really bad Karma and has opened your gateway to Love and Emotional stability which I know you want. I am a Pisces/Aquarius sign I am an Air and Water sign in one. I have been seeing a Libra for 4 Years now. Originally, I was with an Aquarian Woman whom I loved. Since my last 9 year relationship with an Aquarius I decided that I was not looking for a commitment for personal reasons. I have been honest with her since day one and have told her that I am not looking for something serious right now and am willing to see her on an intimate basis if she desires. She is a kind, caring, beautiful person whom I feel blessed to know. However, this does not change the fact that I am not in LOVE with her. I love her but I am not in Love with her. I know the truth can hurt, however there are times when you have to pick up and leave. Libra you will realize one day that what he did was in your better interest. Now you can meet someone whom you are compatible with. I suggest Leo or Sagittarius, Libra for you in terms of marriage. You are fairly compatible with an Aries, Aquarius or Gemini. Your non compatible signs are the following: Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, and Virgo. If you accept this person back into your life History will repeat itself and you will find yourself hurting again. It is only when you let go of someone who is hurting you that you will find the right person. If not you are moving away and farther away from your true love and over all destiny do not let this happen!! As a Libra you can be very Caring and vulnerable, this is when someone can take advantage of you. Again, leave the Cancer man alone and you will find the right guy if you continue to mess with him or accept him coming by late at night for Sexual pleasure you will never get rid of the root of the problem. As Water signs we tend to be very private of ourselves and our intimate lives. He obviously has his reasons, he is just starting to feel guilty for using your kind soul, watch out. Here are some websites that have informative information on what we are talking about check them out.


http://www.astrologyhoroscopes.info/love_compatibilities/libra_horoscope_compatibility.htm<BR>
http://www.astrologyzone.com/<BR>
http://www.astrologypath.com/leocompatibility.htm#LeoLibra<BR>
http://www.astromarc.com./<BR>

Take Care,

Your Pisces/Aquarius friend

Thank you, friend. In fact, I've been on astromarc.com, and have indeed spoken with Marc personally. What you are telling me doesn't make me feel any better, but thanks for sharing. I think I am sick of men in general. I'll take a break and be a b**** for a while. Tired of being the nice girl, watch out men!

Peace