Libras Hanging Out on the Cancer Forum

Not baiting with this topic, but genuinely curious.
There seem to be a good number of you hanging here (especially female) and asking a lot of questions about Cancers.
I am honestly curious as to why--not about what did or did not go right in a relationship with a Cancer, but what seems to compel you to come here/fascinates you about Cancers?

Posted by Deep78

Posted by CluelessCancer
Libras love love and love romance. Makes sense to me.

Exactly! Funny come across this cause I was about to add another thread...I have been told with a cancer man I have to stay consistent with my love for him...he broke up with me...and I do understand why...but my question is,,,what does being consistent mean if he is no longer paying attention? Do I call him and leave a voicemail and express my love? Do I text him everyday? What do I do without annoying him? I want to know what you would want from someone you once loved? How do I show it without coming off as annoying. Please seriously...if you Cancerians know love then please tell me what love is to you....so I can be all that.

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For Pete's sake, don't contact everyday. That's the fast way to getting a Cancer to never come out of their shell.
Reassurance to a Cancer is important. But where things break down a lot IMHO is Cancers tend to retreat and stew for a while if there is perceived hurt. Some interpret that as needing to communicating more. Just an occasional message letting them know you're there is sufficient.

I don't know the circumstances of the breakup. But if there was an indication of something you did that prompted him to break up (perceived or not), apologize without accusing or blaming for the action and leave it at that. Don't get all gushy about expressing love--if he thought you did something, it may come off to him as insincere--another way to have Cancer get behind that shell.
Apologize and live your life.

I don't know about the other Libra gals, but I come here because I love the forum in general. I don't like to talk to my real friends too much about my relationships all the time because they can become a bit bias and give bad advice trying to protect me from the guy or situation, and eventually if I tell them too much they may start develop an opinion. As a libra I don't like the idea of people having bad taste in their mouth about my love interest. It pisses me off. You people don't know me or the guy I'm dealing with, so I can expect to get it straight no chaser. Don't get me wrong I do talk to my friends, but I need advice from people that have nothing to lose or gain, that way I know the advice is real and not personal.

Honestly every cancer man I??ve come in contact with have been drawn to me. I didn't seek them, or approach them. I haven't had the opportunity to meet a cancer woman yet, except the one I work with. She's cool but that's as far as it goes. Cancer men seem to draw me in because I have an emotional side that I can really let go of with them, for some reason it's allowed, and most of the time it's even understood. Lol. I often hide that emotional side of me, so as not to appear weak and defeated by my feelings. Cancer brings it out of me. I don't always like it, but holding things in, isn't always the best thing either.

Posted by pinklibra
I don't know about the other Libra gals, but I come here because I love the forum in general. I don't like to talk to my real friends too much about my relationships all the time because they can become a bit bias and give bad advice trying to protect me from the guy or situation, and eventually if I tell them too much they may start develop an opinion. As a libra I don't like the idea of people having bad taste in their mouth about my love interest. It pisses me off. You people don't know me or the guy I'm dealing with, so I can expect to get it straight no chaser. Don't get me wrong I do talk to my friends, but I need advice from people that have nothing to lose or gain, that way I know the advice is real and not personal.

Honestly every cancer man I??ve come in contact with have been drawn to me. I didn't seek them, or approach them. I haven't had the opportunity to meet a cancer woman yet, except the one I work with. She's cool but that's as far as it goes. Cancer men seem to draw me in because I have an emotional side that I can really let go of with them, for some reason it's allowed, and most of the time it's even understood. Lol. I often hide that emotional side of me, so as not to appear weak and defeated by my feelings. Cancer brings it out of me. I don't always like it, but holding things in, isn't always the best thing either.

Same here on the first part. Despite the paranoia and the hostile reaction I got on another thread, I'm not someone under a new profile--can't wrap my head around people who do that.
I don't know anyone here, so its a good way to bounce things off people.
I've worked with Libra males. Excellent relationships in the workplace and I've kept in touch with them after moving on.
Libra females, honestly, can be a mystery to me. I always get this push-pull feeling with them. Don't know if its placements, or sensing that struggle for control between cardinal signs, but I'd rather not deal with the conflict and don't pursue even if there is an attraction.
One thing I can tell you, at least for me (maybe for other Cancers as well). I can be VERY rational about the feeling thing because I've had to deal with the deep emotional side. I think that's something that elements other than water can't always reconcile.