Libra Woman/ Cancer Male

He says he loves me and we enjoy spending time together and then out of the blue he thinks we should just be friends. Whatcha think?

Cancers are so moody, and often retreat into themselves if asked something they don't want to answer. I was with one for 2 years, and work closely with another. My best suggestion is to ask, VERY gently, for an explanation. Don't be too accusatory, or he'll retreat.

Good luck!

Posted by 2libras
He says he loves me and we enjoy spending time together and then out of the blue he thinks we should just be friends. Whatcha think?

he doesn't love you - move on now before you get any deeper.

No arguments whatsoever. Went to dinner Friday night with a group of our friends. Went back to his place had an another amazing evening if you know what I mean and then the next morning too. Then come Wednesday he thinks we should just be friends. 2nd time he's done that.

Posted by 2libras
No arguments whatsoever. Went to dinner Friday night with a group of our friends. Went back to his place had an another amazing evening if you know what I mean and then the next morning too. Then come Wednesday he thinks we should just be friends. 2nd time he's done that.

So you came back for 2nds after the first round up? Now he knows what level of respect you will put up with and where your boundaries are or lack of - don't give him a third go at this because he will take it.

Run away

He thinks you're fun, just not "the one". My friend (libra) just went through this with a guy (scorpio though). He came over sunday evening, spent all day monday, and by tuesday he had a gf that was not her. They'd been seeing each other for a few months and he told her he wasn't seeing, nor was interested in, anyone else. Right.

It sounds like someone else caught his eye for the moment. Have fun, if you can handle it, but don't get too attached.

^ This

Totally makes sense!

I agree with @rockyroadicecream. RUN. These men are moody, and often don't know what they want. They are very VERY sensitive and you could hurt their feelings or anger them without even knowing it. Too pushy and too moody for the fun-loving flighty, here today maybe gone tomorrow Libra. The only way this pair will work is if you were genuinely and truly best friends first. A cancer man lets his best friend in, sadly in ways he'd never let anyone else in, including his spouse or girlfriend. They don't feel the need to hide behind their shell in front of their best friend because that person accepts them, and makes them feel JUST that special and comfortable. The best friend can handle the mood swings because they are just their best friend, they can give cancer time to cool off, and come back when ready to talk.

If I were you, I'd take time to get over the relationship, then I'd take him up on his offer of friendship, you might find yourselves closer as friends then you ever were as a couple. I know because I've been in a love/close friendship with a cancer man for 12 years. I probably understand him and no more about him than all of his girlfriends in the past combined.

Just run FAST!!!!!!!! and dont look back, worst match i have EVER experienced. if i could go back in time and do my life over i would do everything the same but him smh, nothing but lying selfish childish bastards. find you a Sag or an Aries. you need a man not a lil boy

Posted by ALibra
I agree with @rockyroadicecream. RUN. These men are moody, and often don't know what they want. They are very VERY sensitive and you could hurt their feelings or anger them without even knowing it. Too pushy and too moody for the fun-loving flighty, here today maybe gone tomorrow Libra. The only way this pair will work is if you were genuinely and truly best friends first. A cancer man lets his best friend in, sadly in ways he'd never let anyone else in, including his spouse or girlfriend. They don't feel the need to hide behind their shell in front of their best friend because that person accepts them, and makes them feel JUST that special and comfortable. The best friend can handle the mood swings because they are just their best friend, they can give cancer time to cool off, and come back when ready to talk.

If I were you, I'd take time to get over the relationship, then I'd take him up on his offer of friendship, you might find yourselves closer as friends then you ever were as a couple. I know because I've been in a love/close friendship with a cancer man for 12 years. I probably understand him and no more about him than all of his girlfriends in the past combined.

i agree completely

Thanks LibraSweetie88