Quickest wat to a cancers brain in thro her heart. If u try and believe maybe you'll see that you can aw lays win a cancer by following these rules. I'm being helpful to everyone since I was such a pathetic mess. Number one thing is you gotta be patient and kind sweet. They get weak for sweet and thoughtful. Next comes consistent and caring. That makes them shell time on u less until u get to see them with no shell for good. It makes them feel safe and secure and it makes them trust you enough to share their shell or when your business becomes the cancers private treasures-things they keep near close to their heart. They are SSSOOOOOO fucking complicated that it is really rare for them to meet a person that "gets" them so when they do find that person it's usually a perfect match made in heaven and they won't let you go for shit. Don't trip cuz you'll be stunned wondering wtf is up with this cancers peculiar behavior until you get to the point you want to give up and blow your brains out. Plus they will give you this weird kryptonite magic feel that keeps you under their control. They can control you with one small glance. Especially if their rising or moon is water and fire and a Pluto in Scorp. But you need to hold ur ground and show this intense ass boss ass cancer that u mean business and u will dominate her and put her in her place. But then you ease up and give her space so she won't run away more.
Love letters to cancers
But not too much space. 2 days tops. R else she will think you're not into her because your not being consistent enough and bcuz she nt secure enough she won't open up and show that soft feminine side to her she will give you the manly ass shewolf that will rip your balls off after she's finished devouring her babies. Call her don't text her. Show her the right way to communicate needs and wants. Make a personal bond by talking. Talking gets you better chances of winning her then other goons. When u talk to her make her laugh make her cry make her think hard make her wonder instead of you wondering about her. Whatever you do don't judge her or label her. Be yourself. Even tho these people have expensive tastes and a impressive social connections and money they don't like superficial relationships they go for deep lasting ones. If fire or air in there then that means they will be loyal to you but also go absent or on random unannounced adventures from time to time. So don't look at that and get discouraged. U gotta kno that's how they are. They are great at reading people's psychology and body language but not when their insecurities come up like when they're in love so that's why they can't see that u love them even if the world can see it's there. And they don't move till u move so their coldness or aloofness or head in clouds having ass will make u think they hate u when they really love u the most. But they are having a hard time weather it's life problems or they can't communicate right they are growing and don't understand things because they are in the moment or learning day by day. More
Best when u find out what ales them happy--and I mean THEM happy NOT some stray animal they picked up on their journey. They love picking up charity cases. They go to work to give all their money away to love the world. When u find what makes them happy what makes u hear that rich cancer laugh and that pretty pearly smile then u go do that thing with them and they will slowly fall in love with you. They love writing. Write them one deep love letter and you might as well start shopping for a ring. Use romantic and intelligent style that makes her know u out time into it and u thought about her for awhile like she's been on your mind. No matter how she feels about what u wrote she'll still talk to you because she thinks you earned the chance because u out so much into her and she was flattered.
Take the cance r somewhere in the nature in the woods in the moon right by the water where she can hear the water move. Somewhere u 2 can be alone and where it is quiet and the Cancer can rest their brain and stop thinking so much about work or shit like that and just be wide open about what's on their mind and heart. Be real and upfront with them and they will give u the same. If they care about you they with open up their limits for u and keep opening till your in love together. If they say anything that sounds like they could he telling you they like you they probably really really like or love you. And when they do this kinda thing DONT SHUT THEM DOWN BY REJECTING THEM! They will close up and those limits will start to close real quick until they have no more patience with you. They can take small things for rejection bcuz they are sensitive sensitive people so watch out or else they will punch you right in the ass and hold on tight. If u want them to be yours for life give them a baby or save a orphan in Africa or win the nobel prize or take them to the pyramids to do alien shit out there. Nah first give them a baby. Then do the rest. 2 babies for good measure.
Show them that your not afraid of emotions and get deep right down there with cancer. When you do this they WILL respect you for life. This tho requires some real skill. -she taught me how to do this and it took me 7 years- when u do this they will NEVER hold back any secrets from you. Nah you gotta do this and you gotta show them all the other shit I said. Nah all that and---you should know how to cook and love kids and be funny and be a good host for group dates and be happy and polite just like the cancer. Cancer wants a nice sexy person to compliment them when they go out in public. They like to show off their lovers so look good smell good feel good. U can always tell a cancer from far away because they are always being silly or laughing loudly or giggling or smiling or playing jokes on people or sweet taking people. It's weird that they can even sweet talk people of the same sex when they aren't homo. Sometimes they look amazing like they stepped off a runway sometimes they dress down in sweats. That's how their personality is and that's what they want in a gf bf. they are not stable and deep inside they know it and wish badly that they were more normal and predicative like everybody else--this is why they're insecure---so they desire a partner that is stable and a good leader and predictable and consistent
They want someone who has good sex. When it cancer is comfortable with u ANYTHING goes in the bedroom and they like fantasy so sexing them will make u feel like your in the most epic porno. They will mix that deep feeling intense love shit with sexual skill and tact with naturally sexiness from pheromones and some magic. You will have a new identity by the next morning and wish you can permantly wake up with the cancer next to you. They will sneak up and clean up and cook you good while u rest and make you a bath with herbs and oil in it and even wash u. This can all be yours for the simple price of your soul. Fuck!

Nope not me, fast lane to my heart is through my head...Need that mental connection, then physical=emotional.
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Thinktoomuch she's mine
Thinktoomuch she's mine

^^^^ bitchhslap!

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