Cancers, do you go for comfort or passion?

Who would you chose? A partner who'd you feel you can connect with on a deeper emotional plane but more of a wild card or someone that you're very comfortable with but doesn't touch you emotionally?

Must you feel the excitement when seeing them?

I've had serious relationships with both and the one I was comfortable was the best. He made me feel safe and loved. It was better over time and we would have passionate sex.

Posted by Arielle83
I would pick neither because I'd be looking for passion and comfort in one.

Hmm, maybe I could expound a bit.

I meant comfort as in no nerves, no butterflies, none of it. When you see him it's just like he's another person in the place. So it's not passionate. Not comfort necessarily meaning just someone you could talk to all day or something like that.

But still, answer still the same?

I'll probably get denied (expecially by scorpios) but above all else they mostly want security. I guess that could be considered comfort.

Even above passion they mostly want someone they can trust and care about. They want a person that can entertain them when the mood is right, and make good memories to remind them about when moods are bad.

They want someone to share a comfy home with, and be a team in the relationship rather then just one sided.

I think above passion and above comfort they really want commitment and a secure relationship.

Normally comittiment and security leads them to comfort and passion

Not one or the other. It has to be in the whole package, all of it.

"Can you feeeel, the looovee toniight..." _—

Passion with wild card! It grows into comfort over time but the passion doesn't leave.
(The whole package)

Passion with someone you connect with that u are committed.
Passion has to stay

Passion. They are passionate above all. They will agree to a uncomfortable situation because of the good passion. But passion is not enough if you want a commitment. Cancers commit when you have passion and comfort together. That what makes her be loyal and all that.

How do cancers get passionate about people?

Yeah I'd go for passion.

Like you, Arielle, said I already thought that specific comfort I'm talking about is very friend-zone type of material.
But its been a minute and maybe a relationship without the drama would be nice?

Is there a 3rd option?

My Cancer man left me to go back to his ex. I'm the one with whom he shared a passionate relationship with whereas with her it's comfortable and familiar (and they share a child). It seems comfort/familiarity/security will win over passion/fun/great sex.
Who'da thunk?