Omfg. I'll murder this cancer

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by SuperMissMan on Monday, April 6, 2015 and has 23 replies.

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

It is ALWAYS about him and GIS feelings. My life is much MUCH worst than his but he depressed and needs to be spoon fed happiness which I assume as a Pisces I'm very willing and ready to do in a heartbeat. But limes have een crossed. I put so much effort into us, and into his feelings that it overwhelms me, and then he doesn't do simple things that he knows would make me happy because either "ugh not right now" or it's out of his comfort zone or "I'm trying" but it never gets done and I end up mad he ends up crying and I end up in the end coddling him and apologizing for my stingy Scorpio mars remarks. A week and a half ago I got ma because he felt scared doing anything sexual for two days in a row even if it would make me the happiest female on earth, and I got mad and I gave him many chances for him to prove that "you're right, I'm not going to try. I'm going to do it. I am doing it. I am doing it and I'm making you happy" and many opportunities for him to show me he'll do it (whatever it is) and not even once he did. In fact he did the opposite, he went to his friend house while I was in tears furious at him for not doing anything. Them tonight we were texting and I things got really ba in my life (no need or details please don't ask) and I'm very depressed as is he, for the same reason but it affects me MUCH more than him, and I'm to the point I wish I would die in my sleep, and I sit there constantly cheering him up and talking about his feelings and one thing he does is when we ever talk abounmine he brings his up. So I asked my love to cheer me up with a smiley face and he started going on about how HE feels about it too and I got upset and said that doesn't cheer me up at all, andhe got mad and said that he has feelings too and he needsbto be cheered up too, and that he's trying and why am I dating someone who can't even cheer me up and blah blah blah and at this point i don't care anymore I don't expect him to focus on my feelings but it did hurt because I explained to him exactly how he can cheer me up, by doing what I do for him, hone in on HIS feelings and joke around and get his mind off of things...then I explained how to make me feel worst, an he continued making me feel worst. I'm just really upset now.

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@SuperMissMan
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Ugh it's taking a toll on me. I scew him out about it he says I'm right apologizes and says he'll stop and keeps doing it. Is he stupid? Omfg, I really just want to kill him right now.

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@Magenta_Azure
17 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Let him go. He sounds like a manipulative shit head that needs meds. If you stay with him you'll regret it. He also sounds like he does emotionally fucked up shit to you, then says' sorry' then keeps doing more fucked up shit.Gross. Youve got enough going on.

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@SuperMissMan
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LOL these comments really had me dying. I still love him, I still am able to handle my own emotions, and I definaty am the man here usually, but dice his best friend told him to man up, it's been better. I'm still annoye like hell though 😱

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@taupixie
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He has all the water signs in his personal planets it's no wonder he's such an emotional mess... I'd have killed him long ago if he's around me for more than 2 hours. But you love him, focus on his strengths... I bet his also a very intuitive person & given the right stimulation, can be very understanding & giving. Kudos to you! xD

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@SuperMissMan
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Yes same guy. But I don't put up with alot of that shit ANY MORE :3 x'D he can cry me a river of emotions for all I care I'm not putting up with it :') but seriously you guys crack me up 😆

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Posted by seraph
Well it's in Detriment Libra, but at least it isn't in water as well. Or fire (in combination with the rest.)

But it annoys me so badly. If someone messes around with him or wrongs him, he's all polite an let's them walk all over him and do it again, such as his bitch sister who is a few hours apart from me, an our risings are the only difference (hers Aries mine libra) and she's TERIVLE, worst brat ever, and he let's her step all over him and his dad and my friends, an when he decides to "get back" at them he changes his mid. OMFG. that's a no no for my Scorpio mars, I kill people for him >😢 (not literally, but I would)

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Lol you'll be aiight...just tell him you want this to work and if he wants the same to do his best to meet you half way..he gotta pull his weight too and tell him NO not everything is about you..Then you express yourself. I guarantee he will shut his trap and wait his turn to vent next time.I think because he has a mix of cancer and pisces that makes him EXTRA emotional but when you see him going there just tell him to calm down, you'll be fine...it'll pass..just have faith and be strong.

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Posted by crabRiot
Lol you'll be aiight...just tell him you want this to work and if he wants the same to do his best to meet you half way..he gotta pull his weight too and tell him NO not everything is about you..Then you express yourself. I guarantee he will shut his trap and wait his turn to vent next time.I think because he has a mix of cancer and pisces that makes him EXTRA emotional but when you see him going there just tell him to calm down, you'll be fine...it'll pass..just have faith and be strong.

been there done that. I've done it all. He said he WOULD fix It. He said he IS trying. There's no getting him to actualy do it. No matter how much he wants to and how determined he is to actually change it, he can't.