Moon in Cancer

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I never feel I'm all alone and no one can understand me because I don't really want anyone to fully know me, or "understand me". I'd feel all naked. Aren't Crab moons privacy junkies?


I'd rather learn how to be ok with feeling naked than live in fear my whole life

The least you can do is acknowledge and try to overcome your insecurities



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Initially I too thought it was insecurities but it has more to do with the feeling that you've got nothing left to yourself. Like, if people knew all aspects of me I'd feel like I lost my identity or sense of self, to them.

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I never feel I'm all alone and no one can understand me because I don't really want anyone to fully know me, or "understand me". I'd feel all naked. Aren't Crab moons privacy junkies?


I'd rather learn how to be ok with feeling naked than live in fear my whole life

The least you can do is acknowledge and try to overcome your insecurities




Initially I too thought it was insecurities but it has more to do with the feeling that you've got nothing left to yourself. Like, if people knew all aspects of me I'd feel like I lost my identity or sense of self, to them.

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I get you... yet, I argue that's connected to our susceptibility to get attached. We realize that once we get attached, we might lose ourselves. Therefore, we keep a distance.

We should stop thinking that a serious relationship ends in emotional attachment. You know we're prone to overdo it a little. Identity is preserved when codependency is avoided.

I also believe it feels right to be fully known by a person you really trust. 🙂
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Cancer moon energy ain't for the faint of heart.



You just gotta learn to roll with the emotional punches.
This. My best friend is a sag with a cancer moon. Jfc that guy is an emotional rollercoaster. You either love or hate him. In a good mood he's the life of any party. In a bad mood he'll drain all your energy.
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Thanks for all the comments. It's hard having this moon in cancer, but I hope eventually I'll understand how I can cope up and bring out its meaning in me. Have a nice day everyone 🙂

I'll keep everything in mind 🙂


You have a gem sun. I understand that it might not be always easy. I have a gem moon and most of the times I feel that my moon is constantly throwing away emotions. Gem and cancer and inconjunct. Balance is needed. If you learn to accept both energies you can become very balanced despite their differences. It just needs acceptance, don't reject either side.
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Posted by xXxBitcheroniiiXxX
Cancer moon energy ain't for the faint of heart.



You just gotta learn to roll with the emotional punches.
This. My best friend is a sag with a cancer moon. Jfc that guy is an emotional rollercoaster. You either love or hate him. In a good mood he's the life of any party. In a bad mood he'll drain all your energy.
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Haha he just got married with the most balanced aqua sun gem moon girl. Last weekend he was super stressed because he had to do a long flight this week for work. He hates to fly, gets super anxious and he was flying because of a really contentious issue. We spent the Saturday afternoon together and honestly I got home at 9pm and went straight to bed. He drained all the energy out of me. 😵
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I have this moon placement too 🙋🏻 Usually, I buy myself really good food watch movies, Animes, documentaries,etc. this is when I occasionally cave in and just drown in my sorrows (cries) until it's all over. Also, when I get like this, I tend to push people away and even delete my social media. So, nobody can contact me. Otherwise, I keep my emotions in checked by regularly going to the gym. 💪🏻🙌🏻 But it's always so hard trying to maintain a facade in front of people when I get my mood swings. I confuse a lot of people!! 😪