I'm a leo. I finally hungout with my cancer friend I thought maybe we were just going to go hangout at his place and play video games. Instead we went for hot chocolate @8 pm after work, then we chatted a whole bunch about our lives. He's 22 and moved to northern Canada three years ago from India. At ten he asked if I wanted to go home and I said "do you want me to go home ?" Then he said no I could hangout with you for hours I really enjoy your company. So he took me for a ride out of town and we just looked at the city lights for a tiny bit until the gas light came on then we headed back into town. At the gas station he asked me if I liked boston pizza I said I like the beverages there so he suggested we go there. We ended up laughing for multiple hours and drank these really yummy slush beverages called orange creamsicles. It was the first time he ever tried it. After that he asked if I wanted to go home again it was 1am now. I asked the same question "why do you want me to go home" he replied of course not I'm a night person I never really hungout with any girl like this in a few years you're so fun to be around. Then we drove out to the lake to go look at the area and cabins for fun so that took up a couple hours. Then he asked me if I wanted to drive, I said okay and he complimented my safe driving then when we got out of the car it was really dark and we both stared at the stars for a couple minutes. When we got back into town he asked if I was tired and if I wanted to go home still I answered him with the same question and he said nope I want to drive around with you and talk more. We ended up getting two different veggie wraps and he took me to his restaurant after it was closed showed me around and we ate the wraps in the work office. By this time it was 3:30 am. We went out to the train station because he never checked out that area of the city so while we were there we saw the northern lights in the sky dancing and he was so surprised because he never experienced the view of aurora bourealis and That's when I taught him how to whistle with four fingers. We found a really quiet place to park the vehicle and we talked for an hour and a half. By the time it was five I decided to go home. Once I was home he texted me saying goodnight, and thanking me for hanging out with him. He told me I was very beautiful and nice. He said the night has been one of the best nights of his life. So far we message all the time, it took him a whole day to tell me he
My first date. Leo woman & male cancer
liked me only after he told me to tell my cat he likes him then I was super smooth and said oh my cat likes you, but I like you more then he said oh I like you also. He was over last night we watched a romantic movie laughed super hard then after that he leaned on my shoulder as we watched videos on my phone. It's kind of like he was shy to try anything like hold my hand. So far he's already called me baby twice. He also invited to take me to the capital city of this province next week to go to the museum and to take me out to eat. So I think I'm gonna go with him he's so sweet. I showed him a pictures of my family and he always says sweet things about them. Even when I was on the phone with my mom he told me "tell your mom she has a kind and beautiful daughter who happens to be a good driver and smells really good" 🙂 he also said I have beautiful eyes and a nice smile. He called me perfect. Anyways enough about how amazing I think he is, do cancer and leo work out? Is there anything I need to know about cancers that would help me keep this friendship evolving into something wonderful? Seriously I never met anyone so wonderful. I'm really infatuated with him.

I hope you have an evolved Cancer b/c if you don't you're in for a mind numbing ride so enjoy yourself and when it's over (it's over when he hides in his shell for months at a time) run, do not try to spend months figuring out what's wrong with his somber moody ass.
My suggestion to you would be read the Cancer board, soak it all in, research what makes this pairing work and what doesn't and hope and pray you have a mature evolved Cancer.
My suggestion to you would be read the Cancer board, soak it all in, research what makes this pairing work and what doesn't and hope and pray you have a mature evolved Cancer.

It really depends on a ton of things. Leo men usually annoy me. Too arrogant and self absorbed. The problem with fire (and all the non water signs) is not enough emotional connection and they can't keep up with or understand cancer moods.

Why didn't u go home? Especially the second time he asked? Cancers like for you to feel comfortable but they appreciate a lady. And personal space.

Posted by CluelessCancerPosted by kim30
Why didn't u go home? Especially the second time he asked? Cancers like for you to feel comfortable but they appreciate a lady. And personal space.
For real the adventure seems great, but please don't be a cling on. yuck.
also ya sure he's sweet and shy and nice to you right now, but watch out for when the moods sneak up and they will...
be patient. don't expect mr. romantic cutesy guy for life...he's a dynamic complex man.click to expand
Yes and it gets annoying when a girl doesn't have a mind of her own... do you want to go home? Do you want me to go home? It's like the bride in Coming to America.... "What kind of music do you like?" "What ever kind of music you like." "Bark like a dog" "Arf, arf, arf" "Like a big dog" "Woof, woof, woof"
LOL, great movie.

If you want to stay just fuucking say it and don't beat around the bush. If he gets tired cool, go home no biggie. But honestly I'm the kind of girl who needs her beauty sleep so I would have been out by 12 lol -_-

Coming To America spot on! LOL!!!!

//www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJSZ3Nzys4w
LOL, majority of women coming on to DXP for men advice -_-
LOL, majority of women coming on to DXP for men advice -_-

Sorry Jadezombiee not picking on you just getting tired of all the women coming on here asking for "advice" when all they're really looking for is validation.
Waste-o-time -_-.
Waste-o-time -_-.
He told me he was just asking to see if I was still comfortable that's why. He literally asked me like every half hour if I was hungry or wanted something to drink lol he's coming over tonight you know maybe I'll lay off astrology abit and try not to over analyze this whole friendship. He's coming to visit again tonight to watch a movie again last night he stayed from 1 am until 5 am. We are both night people because our jobs are night jobs most of the time. So Third day In a row he wants to hangout I didn't even have to ask him he asked me, then tomorrow is both our days off and he asked me to hangout. we are going out of town to see some waterfalls together. 🙂 I can think for myself you guys it's just I like to hear what they want so I can know the feeling of wanting to hangout is mutual. Even if he said I'm tired I don't mind I would have been fine with going home. Omg i just want to hug him ._. He's so nice but I'm shy.

Well you need to not focus on the astrology part & just enjoy being with him. You got one of the best man to talk to you. If things are going great, don't let astrology make you paranoid. You can use it to understand his sign & mannerisms, but don't base it on your relationship. Anything can work if you two got love & understanding 🙂.

Plus continue to be direct & sincere about your feelings at all times with the Cancer Man. If he gets sad or in one his moods, be sweet & let him deal with that on his own. He knows you care, so he'll be outta that shell in no time. Also if a Cancer Man ask how you feeling, have you ate, or was your day good it's be we care a lot about you. He must really like you if he wants cook for you. So do the same thing he's doing for you, & what got him in the first place. You'll be fine

Plus with a Leo woman, it'll be easier for the Cancer Man to open up or get out of our "shell". Leo Women are very friendly, talkative, & could easily make a Cancer feel comfortable & even fall in love. All your good traits could make a Cancer Man better. Plus be prepared to be love like never before, because Cancers love strongly. As long as you do the same
He tried to kiss me last night but I told him I want to take it slow, but in reality I'm waiting for the perfect moment to kiss him. I want it to be memorable not just some kiss on a boring couch. I hugged him though omg I wanted to hug him so bad for the longest time it was so cute, he comes off really strong and clingy exactly how I am but with him it's different I don't wanna be that way until we are official. I really like him I feel like rushing things would scare him away. I'm just worried. He's Indian I feel respect for his culture and beliefs. The only real problem is that we haven't met each others parents, his live in India and mind live many hours away. Like I think it's sweet he wants to take me out to the major city for a couple nights, but my mother is worrying and is conjuring up the worst scenerios in her head. He said his parents don't mind he is seeing me and his brother that lives here is very happy for him. Mlah I like him so much he's so handsome.

@Jadezombiee Well you shouldn't scare him since you are both the same. I say wait til you are official, then take a trip with him to met your mom. Let her see how sweet he is. After that, then take the trip to the major city or whatever. Just go with the natural flow of things. You two can be yourself around each other, so no need to force anything. Just take romantic dates around your city until you become bf & gf. By the way he's be the typical Cancer Man. So i understand where you coming from. I'm just like him when i like someone. If you make a Cancer very comfortable around you & you are very sweet, we can fall in love fast or we can express it with our actions. He does really like you if he wanna kiss. But wait awhile til you guys talked more & at least been on one more date ok. Just think with your heart, not your feelings 🙂

Posted by Jadezombiee
He told me he was just asking to see if I was still comfortable that's why. He literally asked me like every half hour if I was hungry or wanted something to drink lol he's coming over tonight you know maybe I'll lay off astrology abit and try not to over analyze this whole friendship. He's coming to visit again tonight to watch a movie again last night he stayed from 1 am until 5 am. We are both night people because our jobs are night jobs most of the time. So Third day In a row he wants to hangout I didn't even have to ask him he asked me, then tomorrow is both our days off and he asked me to hangout. we are going out of town to see some waterfalls together. 🙂 I can think for myself you guys it's just I like to hear what they want so I can know the feeling of wanting to hangout is mutual. Even if he said I'm tired I don't mind I would have been fine with going home. Omg i just want to hug him ._. He's so nice but I'm shy.
I LOVE THIS STORY!
It's the best one we've had on DXP in a long while.
Ignore the jealous shrews, and enjoy. 😄
Crabs are very sensitive, though.
Just saying-- be mindful.
Past five days we've been hanging out, omg I saw him with his shirt off I like
Literally melted he's so muscley. I don't only like him for his appearance. Right now I think everything about him is perfect.
Literally melted he's so muscley. I don't only like him for his appearance. Right now I think everything about him is perfect.

Wow that's kool! I'm glad everything is working out for you. This whole story is beautiful 🙂. A Lion & a Crab together would make a powerful team
Okay sixth day hanging out. So far he's sang to me, we first kissed on a sunset, got stuck in a snowy ditch and laughed about it, cuddled, watched movies, went out for dinner, told our moms about each other, spend every time we got after work to hangout, share food, taught each other new things, shared our life experiences with each other. Everyday is something new. He asks so many questions it's adorable. Sometimes he does funny things like tickles me and I joke and say "stop I'll beat you up!" Then he will say "it's okay I don't mind" he's so strong I honestly thought he was muscley from the gym but he said "no it's from working on my fathers farm business back home" >.< how did I get so lucky ? This perfect human being that could probably have anyone in this city likes me. I'm so grateful for meeting this guy he makes me so happy and I've only known him a short while. Wow

Well that's great!. Just go with the flow & things should go well. Be Careful ok. I don't think you need our help anymore lol. Use your Leo charm to capture your Crab. Be gentle, patient, & understanding of his moods & emotions. You should be fine

Posted by Montgomery
I LOVE THIS STORY!
It's the best one we've had on DXP in a long while.
Ignore the jealous shrews, and enjoy. 😄
Crabs are very sensitive, though.
Just saying-- be mindful.
Posted by CluelessCancer
You sound like a jealous shrew for making that statement, wtf, we give advice and are called jealous shrews, but you give advice and it's kosher.
have 10 seats already.click to expand
😱
SEE?
This is what I'm talking about.
he hee
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