My Weird Difficult LAND LADY IS A CANCER

My Land Lady is well known for her difficult reputation among all tenants and also her own family members that share their stories and sometimes can't understand her actions.
She is very stingy and hold on to every cent LOL and she is sometimes very nice..but sometimes very crabby.

These are her character traits :

1. She's crazy about renovations. There will always be a yearly renovation project, sometimes 3-4
2. She's very territorial with her things
3. She treats her children bad (catty, always has arguments with them) but she wants to be surrounded by them always
4. She's very rich but very stingy and holding on to every cent
5. She appears tough and very brash in behavior

But.....
During some difficulties I faced in life..where a former ex boyfriend (he's Virgo) came stalking me..my landlady bravely told him to leave me alone..she's being very protective of me because she told me she already considered me as her own child/family.

.....and the problem is?

In general extreme or negative bevahivior ( even with astrological tendencies) are caused by personality disorders. A great deal of people have them, and all you can do is try and stay as far away from those people because in general they are impossible to change or treat.

@AiryBri -- no problem here..just sharing. Perhaps any of you need info regarding dealing with Cancer females who you meet in daily life. I was puzzled with my Land Lady's behavior first but since I know she's a Cancer, I can understand her better.

wineaux -- LOL yeah..correct! I love your analysis. Zodiac is really interesting and really can make us understand people more. She's old anyway and I don't think she will change. Just have to learn to accept her and deal with her, but knowing the zodiac helps me more to understand her character.

PurringInTheRain--true. She saved me and helped me dealing with my ex stalking Virgo. She is quite protective. I can't say that I like her very much, but in certain ways I do admire her.

She didn't came from money. She married a rich man, and he died after 20 years of marriage. And he left her money, but she is very smart and a penny pincher so she manages his money and she never works until now just live from the interests.

I'm a cancer and the only way to deal with us is to let us have our way. That is all. Goodnight. 🙂

Posted by kristalaries
@AiryBri -- no problem here..just sharing. Perhaps any of you need info regarding dealing with Cancer females who you meet in daily life. I was puzzled with my Land Lady's behavior first but since I know she's a Cancer, I can understand her better.

wineaux -- LOL yeah..correct! I love your analysis. Zodiac is really interesting and really can make us understand people more. She's old anyway and I don't think she will change. Just have to learn to accept her and deal with her, but knowing the zodiac helps me more to understand her character.

PurringInTheRain--true. She saved me and helped me dealing with my ex stalking Virgo. She is quite protective. I can't say that I like her very much, but in certain ways I do admire her.

She didn't came from money. She married a rich man, and he died after 20 years of marriage. And he left her money, but she is very smart and a penny pincher so she manages his money and she never works until now just live from the interests.

Well my take on it is that personality disorders (which a person can be born with or develop after certain life style s/events/influences) effect people differently based on their zodiac signs. Like a person with a personality disorder will have the negative parts of a zodiac sign amplified to shit.

She also might just be in "survival mode" which is like, not really wanting to be alive or do anything, just get through the day to get through the day. For the sake of her kids. My mom's been in a sort of survival mode (on and off in severity) since my dad died 14 years ago.