Need advice and virtual hug

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pattycake29
@pattycake29
9 Years

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Hi guys I'm new to site and have been wrestling with some feelings involving a Cancer man. I am a Scorpio woman and we started talking about a month ago on an online dating site. Things progressed and we were texting, and facetiming after two weeks of conversing on the site. It felt natural and surreal. I thought I felt a soulmate connection. He could finish my sentences and know what I was feeling. We never met in person. Every time we would try to get together something would come up, but his excuses seemed valid and I wasn't particularly bothered by it because I figure these things can't be rushed and need to happen in their own time. He went away for a weekend and came back different. His grandmother recently died and I really tried to be understanding. The text messages were few and far between and he said it was due to him working longer hours. He works in retail. I tried to be understanding, but my Scorpio nature clinged even more as I sensed him distancing away. I texted him two Wednesdays ago : Did I do something wrong? and he never replied. We were supposed to go on a date on that Monday and he never texted me or called to confirm. Then I sent him a message on Facebook on Friday saying: I miss you. He blocked me. I contacted two psychics about him. One said he will be back and he wasn't ready to give me the relationship I wanted. The other psychic said he won't be back. I need advice on this situation. Give it to me real and please give me advice on how to move on. I can't eat or sleep that well. I know I feel silly. I just don't click with people easily actually ever and I wanted more of him. I didn't care that we came from different backgrounds and didn't even notice those things. I just want to give my love to someone and experience it on a deeper level.
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Cancan
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listen ...I know that you like him and truth be told he probably likes you a lot too...but truth his priorities have changed ...there has a been a death in the family and cancers not only take the loss of their family hard but they also kick into high gear trying to take care of things money-wise and also take care of everyone else emotionally...the only thing that you can do is wait ...if you don't want to do that or be patient you should move on ...but my advice is to you is to be a friend to him in his time of need ...don't make this about you cause its not ...he isn't mad at you he has a lot on his plate ....there was another scorpio that came to the boards with a similar story about her crab only his mother had died ...poor thing she went thru it for months ...but the thing is grief is not something that passes in a couple of months ..depending on how close your crab was to a person who has died they may never be the same ...good luck to you ...