NEED ADVICE ON SITUATION WITH CANCER MAN

I'm a pisces woman who fell unexpectedly for her boss this summer who is a cancer. I was attracted to him the previous summer but dismissed it because of other pressing situations.

When I returned to this seasonal job to work with him this year, I actually laughed at my previous feelings for him. Suddenly in June, cupid hit me and I was enraptured with him. We get along very well. Too well. I don't have to explain myself to him and vice versa. And this relationship had me thinking of possibilities in my life that I haven't or been too afraid to consider. But with him, I felt a full-on go, if anything did develop. I was also aware of him having a huge wall, which we discussed,but it didn't really deter me. A bit scary, which is unsual for me as I have my own walls, I"m not really deterred by folk's walls.

In July, I braced myself and did what I've done every so Haley's Comet....I shared with him that I was attracted to him and wanted to explore that with him. His response was terse..."I'll think about it". Then did the side ways, crab thing...I thought you had a boyfriend...blah blah blah. I was crushed. Really crushed. As I felt a spiritual connection with him too, and this is rare for me.

So, things are fine at work, albeit a bit awkward for me, as I'm still trying to let go of what feelings I've had for him. We still get along but the magic is gone.

Feedback?

Never shit where you eat. Work place romances are just asking for trouble...

What does butter mean? And this is a non-career job. So I'm not worried about a workplace romance derailing my life or money situation.