Pisces women

This Pisces recently started working with me, I get the strong feeling that she's interested in me. Either I'll catch her staring at me, or we'll randomly make eye contact and we always seem to run into eachother throughout the day. We never say much besides "hey how are you" or she'll ask me little questions here and there regarding work. the weird thing about this girl is how approachable yet unapproachable she seems, its as if she wants my attention but doesn't want it at the same time.. Do you women prefer for men to be straightforward and assertive when showing interest in you? Or should I allow her to come to me?

Dude. Run. She'll wife you up then wipe out your bank account on booze and fuck all your friends.

In a romantic senerio we want to be the woman and we want the man to be the man.

Next time you say hi strike up a conversation. Find a common interest. But above all be gueniune.

Pisces is the most feminine sign it's a double feminine so you will find Pisces woman naturally plays this role even subconsciously. She might not even know who you are was just staring off in to space.

Ah... I can't speak for certain if she is into you are not... Pisces are subtle. She could be into you or could be like another poster said stare off into space, just thinking about things.

Can't tell you how many times a guy thought I was hitting on them when I was just being friendly.

Pisces women do like it when a man comes to us, but don't come off too...well too much. It would be undesirable. Also, be yourself, we can read that a mile away and wouldn't find you to be genuine.

Also, as DonumDei said... think VERY carefully if you want to go there. Did the relationship thing at work once before... things become awkward very quickly if you and the other person are not comfortable or mature.

Yes she seems very shy she doesn't really converse with anyone a lot of the girls think she's a bitch lol but she's so pretty and nice, I could very well be reading too much into it and thinking she's interested when really she's just being friendly, that's why I'm cautious about approaching her. funny thing is, she initiates all of our interactions, but she only gives me so much, which is some what new for me. oh well, I guess I'll try to talk a little more when I get the chance, Ill try to be as "genuine" as possible haha

And I'll be leaving this job within the next month so work relations won't be a problem, I'd just like her number before I leave lol

Well, give it a try. What is the worst that can happen?

Posted by Hemispheres
Dude. Run. She'll wife you up then wipe out your bank account on booze and fuck all your friends.

MAYBE other zodiac signs, but we're talking about PISCEAN women. 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

Posted by Capwiththean
And I'll be leaving this job within the next month so work relations won't be a problem, I'd just like her number before I leave lol

Coming from a Piscean woman herself, we don't date at work. Since you're leaving, inform her you'll be leaving soon and would like her phone number. We respect our working environment as we're cautious about not wanting to have rumors starting up. That's why she approaches then is standoffish because she knows the rules and regulations of the company (or in her heart) about dating at work, going out to lunch, and/or going out for drinks after work. We work M-F 7:30-4:30, and yeah, after work is our business, but as mentioned, if we date someone that works with us it's a no no!

I'm sure she will give you her phone number. If she doesn't then she's taken. 🤗 cyber hug! Keep us posted.

Love,

Eva

Ahhh that makes sense, she's very closed off, I've heard she was invited to an after work shindig and declined, I'll be sure to throw in that I'm leaving haha we'll see how it goes, it'll probably take me the whole month to actually ask for her #

Posted by Capwiththean
Ahhh that makes sense, she's very closed off, I've heard she was invited to an after work shindig and declined, I'll be sure to throw in that I'm leaving haha we'll see how it goes, it'll probably take me the whole month to actually ask for her #

I'm like that too...I just wanna go home and relax. You can't FULLY relax with people you work with...the stuff you do off work comes into work with you.

What's fire placements?

And that makes perfect sense DonumDei

due to you being attracted to her, and wanting to approach her in lieu of this ...... the reality is probably much different than what you have swirling around in your head

But, whatever you do .. don't think about that.

Instead ... carry on, as if what you think and want is mutual

Posted by EvatheDiva

Posted by Capwiththean
And I'll be leaving this job within the next month so work relations won't be a problem, I'd just like her number before I leave lol

Coming from a Piscean woman herself, we don't date at work. Since you're leaving, inform her you'll be leaving soon and would like her phone number. We respect our working environment as we're cautious about not wanting to have rumors starting up. That's why she approaches then is standoffish because she knows the rules and regulations of the company (or in her heart) about dating at work, going out to lunch, and/or going out for drinks after work. We work M-F 7:30-4:30, and yeah, after work is our business, but as mentioned, if we date someone that works with us it's a no no!

I'm sure she will give you her phone number. If she doesn't then she's taken. 🤗 cyber hug! Keep us posted.

Love,

Eva

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YES.

Just chat to her, were easy going, we like to make friends, don't stress yourself over it, youl be ok ðŸ‘

Posted by Capwiththean
Yes she seems very shy she doesn't really converse with anyone a lot of the girls think she's a bitch lol but she's so pretty and nice, I could very well be reading too much into it and thinking she's interested when really she's just being friendly, that's why I'm cautious about approaching her. funny thing is, she initiates all of our interactions, but she only gives me so much, which is some what new for me. oh well, I guess I'll try to talk a little more when I get the chance, Ill try to be as "genuine" as possible haha

So!! Pisces here.
If I'm interested, I'll strike a convo.
It's ur responsibility to help keep it going.

I love when people want to get to know me too.
Takes the time to ask about me. Cuz of course... The world revolves around me. Jk. But if you don't care much to try with me, or give me some reason to be interested... I'll stay quiet. What's the point in trying if u ain't.

Pisces are shy tho and do like to feel like princesses.

I apparently give off vibes that I'm interested in everyone I talk to, which is untrue. If I did like you, you would know it.

Posted by Scenic
I apparently give off vibes that I'm interested in everyone I talk to, which is untrue. If I did like you, you would know it.

Ye, its the same for me, I just love to chat to people, but my husband is like: Don't talk to him, he fancies you, oh big deal, I'm married to you arnt I ..lol! But tbh I do tell him if someone is creeping me out a bit, I also avoid them like the plague, I don't give off vibes to people I just like and respect, like you say, its totally different if we do actually fancy you, and, we are free to do so x

Buy her a coffee at break, see her reaction when you bring it over, if she is all smiles and impressed she likes you if she acts a bit indifferent and offish, don't persue x at least you can have a chat either way Š

So I'm just now seeing the coffee comment, I'll try that, sounds simple enough. Just as an update, we had a veryyyy interesting convo about............ Taco Bell ha, I noticed she was eating it and decided to strike up a convo about it. We actually talked a little longer than usual but I couldn't help but notice that she made little to no eye contact. She would look up a little when I was talking then would look back at her phone as if whatever was in there was more interesting than talking to me lol. But every day since our convo she's made it a point to approach me and speak to me. I really don't understand it.

Posted by Capwiththean
So I'm just now seeing the coffee comment, I'll try that, sounds simple enough. Just as an update, we had a veryyyy interesting convo about............ Taco Bell ha, I noticed she was eating it and decided to strike up a convo about it. We actually talked a little longer than usual but I couldn't help but notice that she made little to no eye contact. She would look up a little when I was talking then would look back at her phone as if whatever was in there was more interesting than talking to me lol. But every day since our convo she's made it a point to approach me and speak to me. I really don't understand it.

I can relate to her behavior. She's bashful, probably painfully so. I think you should ask her out ASAP. Seems like these little interactions are causing her some anxiety, could be confusion about what you want too too. Ask her out...relieve her! :-)

I kinda figured it was her being shy, but she's not too shy to speak... haha you ladies are quite complex. I'll make a move next chance I get

Tell her about her being shy and how complex she is? Lol

Posted by Capwiththean
Tell her about her being shy and how complex she is? Lol

Not since the stupid Taco Bell conversation a couple days ago, I believe we work together Saturday though.

Posted by Capwiththean
This Pisces recently started working with me, I get the strong feeling that she's interested in me. Either I'll catch her staring at me, or we'll randomly make eye contact and we always seem to run into eachother throughout the day. We never say much besides "hey how are you" or she'll ask me little questions here and there regarding work. the weird thing about this girl is how approachable yet unapproachable she seems, its as if she wants my attention but doesn't want it at the same time.. Do you women prefer for men to be straightforward and assertive when showing interest in you? Or should I allow her to come to me?

High possibility she would never come to you if she doesn't feel to

So you take initiative

All caps I've met were boring. Hope you are different

Keep her entertained and everything will be fine

Be very patient with her. She will flip flop emotionally 50 times before she decides what she wants from you. Just ignore when she pulls away, it's just her defense mechanism. Slow and steady wins them over every single time.

All I know is moon sign: Taurus
Not really sure how to figure out the rest

Very true, I take extremely long in decision making, hence why it's taking me so long to initiate things with this girl, I over analyze everything

I don't know for certain if she's taken, didn't ask

But the fact that she could simply see me as a friendly face and I could possibly be reading too much into it is what makes me not want to try lol I'm not familiar nor comfortable with rejection, usually women make it known in some extremely obvious way that they want me so it makes easier for me to openly express that I want them as well, but this girl subtly gives me a "hey look at me I'm here" then when I acknowledge her she's like "ehhhh maybe I'm not really here"
Just from her observing her she seems like she'd prefer a slow approach, I'm almost positive I'd freak her out if I was agggresive

I should make it a point it find out if she's taken, that could be major key

you won't know til you ask her out. pisces like men to be direct and to do the work. just ask her out. make some nice simple conversation and work it in. don't be aggressive or annoying or loud or whatever, cuz we see right through that crap. be honest and heartfelt. she'll appreciate it.

Ye, boxcarmirnta, loud and annoying, jeez! Lol!

No update yet ?

Wellllll I have her number. She was on the phone with one of my coworkers a few days ago (sorting out work matters) we were joking around so before they hung up I grabbed the phone and asked if I could have her number. She said "yes text me" so I did so, just saying hey, she gave me a few smiling emojis and said hey, we did the whole whatcha up to? Thing, then I told her to be sure to save my number, she assured me she would and we left it at that. Haven't talked to her since, in my defense, my last couple of days have been extremely hectic between preparing to move homes and jobs. She hasn't texted me I'm sure because she's a shy Pisces that expects me to do all the work? lol

Bless you, of course she does, do you want a lady, or not..?

Lol I do! I'll text her tonight.

So the last couple of days you've been busy? Does she know this, or just thinking oh well he didn't really like me anyway, I'm not gonna make a fool of myself ? Know what I'm saying?

Ye, text her she will be fine with you I'm sure x

Be sure to explain you've been busy, Š always!

This is such a hard one. We obviously appreciate it when guys are assertive, but being to approachable is a turn off. Just speaking for myself, but I think you got to let her eye catch you first, then just be friendly with her, send her some signs - pisces notice things - i think? . If it's all good ask to hang out etc. Don't come in to strong. Just do what men do, We like it when we get to be girls. Ask for her number. You'll know by that if she's interested 🙂

We pretty much appreciate people being straight forward. To me it sounds like you're the one who is interested in her and if that is the case, I would totally give it a try. Sometimes we do not even notice our surroundings and when we do we're more curious about the other person's intentions than crushing.

Just don't attempt to act out who you want her to see. Be yourself. We have a way of knowing who is full of shit and who isn't.