I was dating a cancer man for about a month, OMG.... I was starting to fall hard. He is my friends older brother. I have known him for a couple of years but never wanted to hook up with him cuz he is very good looking and a biker, i didnt want the headache, ya know what I mean. So finally we started talking and hanging out as friends then he kissed me and after that it was out of my control. JK I still kept my cool on the outside but in the inside he has been all I think about. We started seeing more of eachother, the first week we hung out twice, second week more by the fourth week I stayed at his house for four days. The four days I spent with him were great, we got along so well, i am also a cancer. I was shocked that we werent sick of each other, after I left I figured we wouldnt see eachother for a few days but he called me that night and said he missed me and had to see me. When we saw each other that same night he kissed me and held me. It was soo sweet. The next couple of days we hung out everything was perfect and all of a sudden, WE ARE OVER!! I dont understand what happened. The last time we hung out, we were with a few of his friends (guys and girls) drinking beer and playing darts. A friend of his showed up to his house with a girl and all of a sudden he said he would be right back he had to go somewhere but he kinda like told everyone in the room but wouldnt make eye contact with me...he just left. So I felt like he was expecting me to just sit and wait for him to come back, So I told his friend wh is a guy to go to the casino with me and we did. I called a couple hours later and he didnt answer and hasnt called me since. Its been 5 days, he sent me a text the other day say its over basically but no reason. I dont want to call him cuz if he wanted to talk to me he would call me. I dont think he was mad cuz I went with his friend cuz his friend is not my type and he is one of those guys girls like to hang out with. I miss I will be fine but I wan him back. His sister did warn me saying her brother will will just decide to end it one day for no reason and not even care.
Need tips to get my cancer man back!!
So I guess that means its over. oh well, last cancer guy I date.

Posted by Cancer69Girl
So I felt like he was expecting me to just sit and wait for him to come back, So I told his friend wh is a guy to go to the casino with me and we did.
^^^^^ this^^^^^ ... duh.
Seriously, think about your subconscious reasons for going to the casino with his guy friend. You already said it in your OP.
It was a manipulative move to get a response out of him.
You got a response... he dumped you.

Posted by AcrabPosted by Maddy
Acrab, I'm curious what was your previous screen name if you don't mind?
Why?click to expand
you kinda sound like Mr. Crabby, but I think you are acrabbycrab
Am I right?
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