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agis
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13 YearsAries

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I don't expect anyone to answer or provide input however I have to write it.
It's been 4 weeks again without any interaction between us. The longest period was 2 months.
I was fine until yesterday. I met new people, I worked a lot and I occupied myself.
I don't know what happened, I thought of him yesterday. And since that point I feel like a piece of shit.

I miss him.

It's been a year since we broke up. I am stil hurt and I don't think it's normal.
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MissLibra
@MissLibra
12 Years

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"Cancera usually love hard and can continue to love no matter what."

I'm in a similar situation. Relationship is over. He ended it. The texts and calls from Cancer man continue. I'm not sure if the inconsequential empty texts/calls are compelled by love. It seems that he can't/won't let go, for whatever reason (cancer trait?). Perhaps it's his way of checking to see if you're still "there", but I seriously doubt that he considers how it makes you feel emotionally.
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Ssasy
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12 Years1,000+ Posts

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Cancers are def known for NOT being able to let go. And I dunno if its always about love.
It def can be but it can also be about caring, wanting to make sure that person is ok, or just being used to that person you want to continue contact until it isnt necessary....But if a cancer cuts you off...no communication at all for a long time. Doesnt mean they are not thinking about you, But non communication is probably just to see if you will text 1st or to give you space...
or because they believe your probably annoyed by too much of their attention...Cancers are really based on Emotions alll around.