Now that Im single......

So now that I am completely single....and Ive shared this with a few male friends and female friends (some are gay)

They find it their duty to TRY to court me VERY hard....

But 2 of these folks are long time friends...I dont want to be mean.....But Goodness
Why does "broken Up" scream I want to HAVE SEX or Cuddle with you to some folks?

My heart still is in the back pocket of That Damn Aquarius...So all of this attention is RATHER ANNOYING!!!

I know the feeling, but relies this, the one who tries and you turn him down, and he sticks around as a goof friend give him the first shot if it ever entered your mind.

Posted by Piscesemapth
I know the feeling, but relies this, the one who tries and you turn him down, and he sticks around as a goof friend give him the first shot if it ever entered your mind.

The funny thing is I am comfortable with my sexuality. I came otu about 6 years ago and havent turned back since i made that decision.

This Taurus GUY who is the main one! Has been around since! but I dont feel anything for him.. He looks great on paper...and in person I just cant feel for him. Especially now that hes trying 2x as hard as before...

This sounds like a classic example of men "waiting in the wings." It's easy to be friends with men when you're "off the market" because you hopefully never have to explain whey you're not attracted to them. You're now single and they see their chance. Can't blame them for going for it but it prolly means the end of the friendship. Why? B/c you aren't doing the same things. You're friends and they are hoping for me. And some of them get mean when you have to reject them b/c no one likes being rejected. Then you feel guilty then angry over it all. I'm single too and have been where you are. I've even had men I was merely friendly to on occasion try for more and it was super awkward turning them down. Being single and having straight male friends is super tough IMHO. I do love men but they aren't worth the effort or drama when it's like that. Too bad b/c I've had some of my best convos with men.

Posted by Este8
This sounds like a classic example of men "waiting in the wings." It's easy to be friends with men when you're "off the market" because you hopefully never have to explain whey you're not attracted to them. You're now single and they see their chance. Can't blame them for going for it but it prolly means the end of the friendship. Why? B/c you aren't doing the same things. You're friends and they are hoping for me. And some of them get mean when you have to reject them b/c no one likes being rejected. Then you feel guilty then angry over it all. I'm single too and have been where you are. I've even had men I was merely friendly to on occasion try for more and it was super awkward turning them down. Being single and having straight male friends is super tough IMHO. I do love men but they aren't worth the effort or drama when it's like that. Too bad b/c I've had some of my best convos with men.

UGh Yeahh....And the weird thing about it is!!! THis Taurus Guy has been here with me before when I went through another break up......before this. And he is always there to talk to...and giev advice..
But now when every morning is goodmorning babe...and lets go here together...-_-....Um PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ STOP but I dont want to NOT be friends...its annoying. He knows im still in love with my GIRLFRIEND...Why do you think you can change me?Im not ready to date and im not going to put myself in hrms way to hurt someone or myself.

Well i think you should tell him you aren't interested in him, & stick your guns. He knows you like women now, so you may have to just tell him that again & make it clear that you don't want a relationship with him, & that you date women only. If he is really your friend, he should know you only date women. Now if you was straight & single, then you can't blame him for trying to be your man. But he knows your situation, & that you like women. So if he can't respect your boundaries & your wishes; then he can't be your friend. You gon have to set him straight. If he's your TRUE friend, he'll understand

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
Well i think you should tell him you aren't interested in him, & stick your guns. He knows you like women now, so you may have to just tell him that again & make it clear that you don't want a relationship with him, & that you date women only. If he is really your friend, he should know you only date women. Now if you was straight & single, then you can't blame him for trying to be your man. But he knows your situation, & that you like women. So if he can't respect your boundaries & your wishes; then he can't be your friend. You gon have to set him straight. If he's your TRUE friend, he'll understand

Trust he knows...I spent the night and he even said....I respect your wishes! But now hes being overly sweet...and I dunno if its just me but when im NOT into you I feel weird about the effection.

@Ssasy Ohh by the way, i just responded to your message. Go check it out. As for your Taurus friend, let him him know his behavior is making you uncomfortable. If he doesn't stop, then don't hang out with him anymore. You spending the night as you just said, probably gave him the wrong idea. So you need to have one last talk with him about this. If he doesn't get it then, then it's time to let him go ok

Guess I will tell him I just need to stay to myself for a while and im not intrested in him that way....
:/ Hope he doesnt get weird on me...Hes a great friend.

Well if he does get "weird" & can't respect your wishes; he wasn't really your friend to begin with.