Question for the Crabbies

When your love turns to hate does it happen in a flash or is it a slow growing flame?

Well lets put it this way, once a person piss me off the point of no return, or burn a bridge, well that sweet side because a scorcher of hell. Don't get on a Crabs bad side 😉

Slow growing flame. I try to give the person the benefit of the doubt, you know? Maybe you're a nice guy underneath the asshole exterior; maybe you have some personal issues that make you act like a sociopath.

It gets to a point where I say I don't want to hate you, but you're making it really difficult for me not to. I only have so much compassion. After, i lose that..along with patience and understanding, it's like screw your whole existence.

Depends but if you wronged me from love to hate... you usually fucked up bad so it happens in a flash

Maybe hate isn't the right word. I don't know, you tell me. I'm trying to pinpoint the emotion I felt when I was on the phone with "some guy". He was suppose to be so in love with me? Hmmm. While he's running his mouth about nothing I hear a woman say 'hi, honey'. I didn't say anything. I didn't feel anything, until two days later when I was waxing my underarms. I didn't want him to die but the idea made me laugh.

well Kim, he probably would have died if you was staying with him lol. He missed out on a good woman such as you. Sucks for him, He'll regret his lies one day. Anyways, NEXT!

LOL yeah! Next!!!!

I'm the kind of person who doesn't run for the hills at the first sign of trouble. My problem is probably staying in a relationship that's just not gonna work out long past the expiration date. While I've had my "love to hate" moments in a relationship, I can honestly say that I don't hate a single ex. There was something good about them or I wouldn't have been in relationship with them. I think "love to hate" is probably part of the break up process and getting out the disappointment and feelings of injustice. But it's just a wave on the ocean, an emotion that passes. The truth is that we learn something from every single relationship we have. It's getting stuck in the pain and disappointment victimizes us, not the person who let us down. In other words, we need to move beyond the pain in order to heal. We forgive those who hurt us in order to release the pain and set ourselves free.

I am really patient. I will wait, observe, check, give chances to improve. Then one day I wake up, I don't care anymore and hate begins. But you've had so many chances to react, so at that point it's your fault.

THIS IS ME.... love turns to patience. PATIENCE turns to Hate and HATE turns to .... SUCK ITTTT!!!!!lol

And by suck it... meaning . u can suck a lollipop, or popsicle. Dont matter choose ur poison,lol

LOL @Redmann Does it again! 😄. Wow you should be a comedian.

Yeah i should but i more leaning to action hero status.....lmao. Hey it could happen you know, I wanna be an anti hero though.Venom!!!!!