Cancer Man - Quite after First Date

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Dreamer11 on Sunday, July 20, 2014 and has 7 replies.

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@Dreamer11
12 Years

Lol aqua that's a funny song .. That's what the crab would say to the cap .. Except cap wouldn't buy dinner .. He would split the bill lol

Now what do I do with mr. Cancer I really like the guy and I don't like people that easily .. What is the best way to deal with this?

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@CancerOnTheCusp
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Patience, Ms Ram.
It sounds like things went well-doesn't sound like there were any red flags on either side.

If he said he'll contact you, he probably will. Give it another day or two.

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@CancerOnTheCusp
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Like aqua said, if by day 3 you don't want hear from him, send a quick text letting him know you had a good time.
And if you want to be a little bold, hang it out there that you were wondering when you two might have another date. Just don't get too aggressive about it.

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@2BlackIndian3
12 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Well he probably got caught up in something important. Give him about 2 or 3 days. If he really enjoyed his time with you, then he'll call. Don't worry because he knows you like him. Let him come to you ok. Go by his actions as well. In the mean time, enjoy the rest of your weekend. Drink a teqiula sunrise or something lol. I wish you the best 🙂

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@tiki33
19 Years10,000+ Posts

+1 Blackindian

Ugh hate online dating which is why I never got into it, met my husband the old fashioned way.

Don't chase him, a crab will surely hide and run, if he doesn't come back around after 3 days for whatever reason don't sweat it, keep it moving and go out and have fun with someone else. Can't take one date too seriously. If he's interested he'll contact you first.

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@2BlackIndian3
12 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by tiki33
+1 Blackindian

Ugh hate online dating which is why I never got into it, met my husband the old fashioned way.

Don't chase him, a crab will surely hide and run, if he doesn't come back around after 3 days for whatever reason don't sweat it, keep it moving and go out and have fun with someone else. Can't take one date too seriously. If he's interested he'll contact you first.

Right On! +2 lol, Yeah online dating isn't for me either. I rather wait to met a good person the old way too. Great advice here as well