Passive Aggressive Cancer, love or hate?

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ariesinlove3
@ariesinlove3
8 Years

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Alright need some advice because I'm about to lose my goddamn mind.

Met cancer man, very forward, very promiscuous with every single girl that walked by him. Was told by many of my female friends to avoid him. I end up going home with him and we get into a heated debate about politics and kicks me out. I end up hooking up with him and it's the best chemistry in bed I've ever had in my life. We apparently agreed on everything but politics and made jokes about it. so we start this little fuck buddy situation and I really get to know him over the course of this time. then he ghosts me...

I think welp that was fun while it lasted and moved on. one drunk night, his friends and my friends are hanging out, he asks for my friends number and i tell him to back off my friend (apparently, I was too drunk to remember) his roommate comes up to me, asks for my number and i willingly give it to him... cancer man ghosts me again...

then one night he comes up to me and bitches me out for getting said roomates phone number and accuses me of sleeping with his roommate.. then he proceeds to text and call me about it. we aren't dating, never have dated and hes acting like we are in this situation. he gets over it, we start hooking up again, all is well.

he leaves the country for a month, in this time, his roommate and i become close as friends. when cancer man comes back, he notices and flips out on me AGAIN. then in a matter of hours gets over it and invites me to hook up with him and another girl, I'm an Aries female so I'm all about it, right as we are about to start the threesome, his roommate knocks on the door and cancer man lets roommate in to join in and it quickly becomes of foursome, cancer man leaves with other girl and roommate and i decide that its best we just keep going and leave them be. next morning cancer man is pissed, I asked "whyd you let him join" he replies "i didnt make you have sex with him"... I said, "you had sex with the other girl", he said, "i didnt, i couldnt get it up all night, glad you had fun"....THIS IS WHERE DRAMA TAKES A TURN... proceeds to tell me the first thing he did when he woke up was watch the security footage of us walking into his condo and "could tell his roommate had a thing by the way we looked at each other on the video"...I apologize and he ghosts me... sees me that next night and kisses me and tells me not to worry about, sees me again and brings of the security footage again and says from watching it again, he could tell id already hooked up with roommate before that night (but i hadnt), then sees me again and tells me "I guess you can sleep with whoever you want to now"..... LOL BUT WE WERE ALREADY DOING THAT and he says" well now you actually can".... doesnt talk for a week, text me angryily while at party together that i wont leave him alone (was avoiding him all night) states im crazy and that hes going to block my number (never even texted him), next night comes to me and everyone im talking to and tells them to talk to me, im not cool, i tell him to leave me alone, he tells me to leave him alone.... (he came up to me??) then follows me around for an hour trying to apologize for his actions, I start to really ignore him at this point, no more friendly hellos since we have the same friends, gets mad I ignore him and starts trying to come up and talk to me even more, i keep walking away, he finally grabs me and tells me one night while i was passed out drunk, his friend and him slapped my ass and that i snore in my sleep... i said "cool why are you telling me this", he says, "i just want to let you know" and i said, "and..." and he just smiles and so i was so angry I just said, "thank you for being so sweet to me" and he got so livid, he stormed off again........... I havent spoken to him since and went home with a different guy and im sure that made him super mad.... but my question is, DOES THIS MAN HATE ME OR LOVE ME? who would go out of their way that much to piss someone off?