Ok hi this is my first post, I hope I can gain some insight. This guy is cancer Leo cusp. I met him online. We chatted every day the started texting and calling most days. During this 2 week period we were getting to know each other and talked about meeting. He told me that he was once seeing a girl who non stop called and text and he did not like this. Then after the last msg I sent he disappeared no contact; so I left him alone. After 3 weeks he messaged me out of the blue I was like oh hi stranger where u been kindA thing, but encouraged chat. He started calling and wanted to meet. The first night we both had plans so it was semi arrangements to meet for a drink quite late. He called me to say it was too late I was ok about this as it was fine no concrete plans. On sat he calls saying let's meet Sunday. 2 hrs before we are due to meet he calls and says he's busy he knows he is being a @);: can I meet him later in the week , I said not really it's short notice to cancel on me don't worry about it. Was miffed. He kept calling and calling eventually I pick up. He says sorry please let's meet as planned I said I feel like it's an effort for you now but after pleading we met. We had a good first date. We liked each other. We had a kiss and a cuddle in the pub. After that date he was on my case so we dated for a while each time getting better, I guess coz we dated every other day I got a little attached but never revealed my feelings. He held my hand, kissed and cuddled me in the street so romantic. He took me to nice restaurants.. When he stayed over for the first time it was nice. He called me as soon as he went out the door. Im me all day etc I thought wow he's seeing me as gf material. Anyway the last time he stayed over I cooked for him we cuddled on the sofa. Talked about our families and friends . He blew his friends off on a sat night to spend time with me. He said I told em I was seeing my b@tch tonight and went red. In London most guys say this in a jokey term so I didn't deem it offensive. So we were intimate he hung around the next day we parted. He text me to say he was home. 48 hours I barely heard from him. One msg I replied to and blanked. The following day nothing. I panicked and thought he's gone off me, his lack of contact was apparent. So out of frustration I sent a text saying he's distant with me I've barely heard from him and it doesn't feel great. I said I like warm as opposed to hot and cold and in a roundabout way said he's great but
