Seduction Tips For Cancer...

I am making these for all the signs, since so many ask. Fell free to add your own tips:

You should:

Be sensitive, loving, gentle and, all in all, show your utmost feminine nature.

Learn to be patient with him, this can be quite difficult but still??_

Display interest in cooking, he loves to eat.

Be sensual in bedroom, but don't overdo it, you shouldn't be more experienced in sex than he is.



You shouldn't:

Tease him on purpose, his reaction may be unpredictable

Be a spendthrift, Cancer is quite practical when it comes to money.

Try to be cool-headed in the bedroom, he needs to see your sensual-self.

Also:

-Avoid making him jealous at all costs
-Shower him with affection
-BE AVAILABLE (he hates it when you call and you dont pick up the phone)
-Be understanding and listen to him
-Be aware that his rhythm is SLOW
-Be homely and keep your house tidy
-Surprise him
-Be romantic
-dont be soooo self-sufficient, if you are, then try to play "damsel in distress" from time to time so he feels needed.
-For any major decisions, he likes to be included so consult him
-Be VERY feminine

I agree with you, CG, and Im including some more that Ive noticed in this almost half year with a Crab.
I think you cant force most of these things, if you are feminine, you just are. If you are homely, you just are. the same applies with being romantic...
Pretending will lead nowhere, I wouldnt pretend to earn the Crab's heart, they can notice all and perceive all...
What can be learned, is that they need time and patience. And that they love to feel included and needed.
I hope anybody interested in a Crab will learn a bit more tfrom this....

DO..
Offer To Cook WITH them, (Its super oober romantic)
Light Candles just because
Shower them with compliments,but be sincere,we can smell dishonesty!

DONT..
TRY To make us jealous on purpose
Go through our personal crapola without permission
Start b*tchin at us for no reason
Tell us how great your ex was, we dont give a crap!

Posted by PiscesArgie
Also:

-Avoid making him jealous at all costs
-Shower him with affection
-BE AVAILABLE (he hates it when you call and you dont pick up the phone)
-Be understanding and listen to him
-Be aware that his rhythm is SLOW
-Be homely and keep your house tidy
-Surprise him
-Be romantic
-dont be soooo self-sufficient, if you are, then try to play "damsel in distress" from time to time so he feels needed.
-For any major decisions, he likes to be included so consult him
-Be VERY feminine

I agree with you, CG, and Im including some more that Ive noticed in this almost half year with a Crab.
I think you cant force most of these things, if you are feminine, you just are. If you are homely, you just are. the same applies with being romantic...
Pretending will lead nowhere, I wouldnt pretend to earn the Crab's heart, they can notice all and perceive all...
What can be learned, is that they need time and patience. And that they love to feel included and needed.
I hope anybody interested in a Crab will learn a bit more tfrom this....

I'm wondering if you're actually a cancerian. If you combine the shower him with affection and surprise him then you get surprise showering of affection which is the best of all. Too much affection is smothering, but if you're surprising with it, it's great! Also YES we like to be handy, so let us be your personal hero, ask us for advice, to fix something, anything to make us feel a little bit like you need us in some way.

Be VERY feminine, yes, please do! Strong and feminine, together they're such a huge turn on. I hate vulgarity.

sounds about right.

"Be VERY feminine, yes, please do! Strong and feminine, together they're such a huge turn on. I hate vulgarity."

A comment often made by my Crab. I love being feminine though I am not this type of girlie girl who doesnt go out without her high heels, allthe contrary!
But he will always see me perfumed, nails and toenails polished, waxed and clean. I think Crabs aRE VERY MASCULINE AND MACHO, which turns me on as well, together with the combinationn of their sensitivity.

So if for your strong and feminine is a turn on, for me, masculine yet tender is also a tremendous turn on.

the only thing I complain about are THE MOOD SWINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG IT IS SO HARD TO HANDLE!!!!

Posted by EmotionalMoon
THE MOOD SWINGS!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG IT IS SO HARD TO HANDLE!!!!

/there not moods there emotions.

Ok but they are veyr hard to handle for the rest of us...
specially when sometimes you DID SOMETHING which you dont know, and he gets pissed.
and then he just appears to be okay and you will never know what happened.
IS IT LIKE THAT, DO YOU FEEL ABSOLUTELY ALL?
Do crabs ever think that the other person could not understand— Do they care to explain to the others what happens in their minds? its gets hard for their partner to know.. I guess I still dont know my Crab well, its been some months, but this issue bugs me a bit and even Fishies lose their patience too. 🙂

@EmotionalMoon "Cancerians are known to be very giving people emtotionally etc but we are also very emotionally selfish."

Could you explain me a little bit more about this? 🙂

YEAH, OK
It does get difficult
After some time I am getting used to , because I just see that the moods and emotions pass so quickly!
I am learning not to take things personally..because as you know, Fish are also sensitive.
This week I have had a hard time with my Crab
He insists he has the "feeling" I am talking to somebody, or open to meeting somebody, he says his sixth sense seldom fails, and I am having to be reassuring all the time

why do you guys get so insecure from time to time—?
He was paranoid.....
Guess that as a Fish Im sweet and try to reassure hiim, but I guess also being a Fish, i am elusive, and that makes him doubt.
It is not easy for us Fishes and Crabs togehter despite what the zodiac says....it is a complicated connection

Be consistent - my experience tells me he likes to feel safe, so if you disappear suddenly and he doesn't know why, he'll stress about it.... and sulk... for the longest time.

Yes, thanks, I know...But I agree with Emotional Moon that we Fish also need reassurance. It is difficult...

Emotional Moon, did I understand correctly, you are in a relationship, and happy, and suddenly you see a photo of an ex girlfriend and you obsess about it? you start missing this person? I have a hard time understanding this concept of Crabs living in the past..do yo wish to go back to her?? how does this work?

Yesterday my Crab came and we had a talk about all this paranoia of me being with "somebody" else. I told him I was a bit elusive because I was insecure myself, but there was nobody, just me needing space. We talked a lot. Before the mature talk there was a threat of "break up" (Im gonna open a thread about it cos it intrigues me) but that mood soon passed and he confessed he loves me and wants to be with me...