should I let this happen to her or try to barge in and do the rescue? cancerians advice!

cancerians, ever disliked someone so much you eventually end up befriending and even dating them? happening to my bestie!! my cancerian chick is falling in love with the wrongest guy for her! she has this arch rival in her class, a libra guy, butt ugly guy with a great attitude so he somehow dated a few girls from the same class ( not simultaneously) everyone knows about him and his horrible personality, disrespects anyone and anything just because. so naturally she hated him so much it made him cringe every time she shows up. she used to tell me tales of what horrible things he does and how much she hates his guts but now all of this has somehow changed to them making a deal to date each other over the next whole month and see how it goes.

I have no info on how this came to be except that he apparently showed up a lot often at her place with the other mutual friends!



he is wrong for her she knows that and we know that, he thinks he's gonna get some every time she drinks (which his kinda true about her) but in this case it's indispensable advantage! I'm worried he might leave her hanging after the "deal" or ask the friends ways to break off with her ( which will hurt her ego and devastate her!) and she'll end up heart broken, because he did almost the same but a different version to another girl ( asked her out and a few months later asked his friends advice on how to dump her that she was the last to know when he started dating another girl from the class without breaking off yet)

me and my taurean bestie are quite concerned, my cancerian cannot hold her alcohol! she drinks with him so maybe he sweet talked her when she was drunk possibly. I live away so I cannot control this directly, but should I warn her not to do this? I have just advised her to take it slow for now since she hasn't dated in a really long time so maybe she knows what she's getting into, also she has trust issues with people and I'll never know how she picked this least trustworthy one to date. cancerians advice!

You told her, maybe tell her again but you may just have to allow her to learn a lesson. Tough love. Sometimes, it's best to not even stick our noses in situations such as these. The more you try to talk them out of it, the more they want the person. Soooo allow her to make a dumb decision and learn from it.

She probably thinks she can change the guy. Lol Good luck with that.

"I cannot control this directly"

Maybe this is the issue you're having. Maybe she's happy and you're cockblocking.

oh I know this. yeah this happens to some of us cancers funny enough with another libra we have some strong dislike towards some people we get consumed by it and end turning it into a vent out since we can't take revenge against them it vent out into curiosity then obsession turns into infatuation lol

warn her against it and she will not listen tell her what disasters will happen, then maybe she'll be scared enough to walk out of it. I din't get the deal part so I assume he asked her out to date just for a month for now? not a bad arrangement if it's not serious. since she's willingly entering knowing it's just for the month.

don't worry, just watch out for her in general. I love how aries people protect their friends. I wish I had protective friends like this since we are the ones used to protecting others, but fire signs and I just never get along.

It's not your vagina = it's not your business.

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's not your vagina = it's not your business.

If only this was a concept republicans could grasp.

Posted by Ssuperman
"I cannot control this directly"

Maybe this is the issue you're having. Maybe she's happy and you're cockblocking.

it's a possibility

Posted by LadyNeptune
It's not your vagina = it's not your business.

lol true

Posted by jamaicanpepper
oh I know this. yeah this happens to some of us cancers funny enough with another libra we have some strong dislike towards some people we get consumed by it and end turning it into a vent out since we can't take revenge against them it vent out into curiosity then obsession turns into infatuation lol

warn her against it and she will not listen tell her what disasters will happen, then maybe she'll be scared enough to walk out of it. I din't get the deal part so I assume he asked her out to date just for a month for now? not a bad arrangement if it's not serious. since she's willingly entering knowing it's just for the month.

don't worry, just watch out for her in general. I love how aries people protect their friends. I wish I had protective friends like this since we are the ones used to protecting others, but fire signs and I just never get along.

yeah I'll try to watch out. lol just be yourself all firesigns will be your friends.