getting libra attention

This topic was created in the Libra forum by rainbow33 on Monday, October 24, 2016 and has 19 replies.

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Hi, I need help! I'm interested in this libra man,initiated convo w him a few times.. he didnt reply the last time aft we texted awhile. Any ideas how to get him interested? Really wanna get to know him more.

I'm thinking of asking him out for a movie? Help pls, thanks in advance!!

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by dolluxe
Posted by rainbow33
Hi, I need help! I'm interested in this libra man,initiated convo w him a few times.. he didnt reply the last time aft we texted awhile. Any ideas how to get him interested? Really wanna get to know him more.

I'm thinking of asking him out for a movie? Help pls, thanks in advance!!

Just ask him if he wants to hang out. If a Libra likes you, he won't flake on you.

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Thank you! I will ask him out around during Christmas season then.. πŸ™‚

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@happyface1
10 Years500+ Posts

Posted by rainbow33
Hi, I need help! I'm interested in this libra man,initiated convo w him a few times.. he didnt reply the last time aft we texted awhile. Any ideas how to get him interested? Really wanna get to know him more.

I'm thinking of asking him out for a movie? Help pls, thanks in advance!!

Stop...he should be the one inviting you out.

If you've given him an opening and he did not take it and you all have no history......

And you tried a few times afterwards and he's still not responding...just stop...you are the catch

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@jeane
11 Years5,000+ Posts

All you can do is be yourself. If you are the one initiating all the time and the last time he ignored you, he is not interested.

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by LadyNeptune
I need a little more to go off of...

How long have you know him?

Where did you meet?

You have his number, how did that come about?

Hi, know him through a friend.. cuz we have a grp chat.. met in an event organised by my friend too..

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by dolluxe
Posted by rainbow33
Posted by dolluxe
Posted by rainbow33
Hi, I need help! I'm interested in this libra man,initiated convo w him a few times.. he didnt reply the last time aft we texted awhile. Any ideas how to get him interested? Really wanna get to know him more.

I'm thinking of asking him out for a movie? Help pls, thanks in advance!!

Just ask him if he wants to hang out. If a Libra likes you, he won't flake on you.

Thank you! I will ask him out around during Christmas season then.. πŸ™‚

Christmas? He'd be long gone by then. Cuffing season my dear.

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Alright!! Thank you dear! πŸ™‚

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@Librawoman77
10 Years500+ Posts

I can appreciate your forwardness, I am a forward woman myself. However Libra men are cardinals; leaders; they like to initiate. So your forwardness would be more appreciated by a mutable, or feminine sign like Pisces, and Cancer.

Perhaps you are unaware, but most guys like to pursue, if a guy likes you, he won't ignore your text, he will pursue you. He will keep in contact, call, text, etc. You can't "make" someone's heart feel something that it won't. I have had a Capricorn in pursuit of me for nine years. He just won't get it. I knew after our second conversation that there were no sparks, and no matter how good he is to me, I can't make my heart feel something that it won't.

He's lack of interest is so blatant, he's not even trying to get the booty.

Yeah, honey; you win some you lose some. Hopefully you won't make too big of a fool of yourself. But by no means, should you ever ever ever chase a man. However, perhaps this is something you need to experience for yourself.

Dress really nice; we love well-groomed people. Go the extra mile to look exceptionally nice, talk about intellectually stimulating things, show your staying power but independence. Sometimes Libras and Capricorns end up together.

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@Gemoodeye1
10 Years

Posted by Librawoman77
I can appreciate your forwardness, I am a forward woman myself. However Libra men are cardinals; leaders; they like to initiate. So your forwardness would be more appreciated by a mutable, or feminine sign like Pisces, and Cancer.

Perhaps you are unaware, but most guys like to pursue, if a guy likes you, he won't ignore your text, he will pursue you. He will keep in contact, call, text, etc. You can't "make" someone's heart feel something that it won't. I have had a Capricorn in pursuit of me for nine years. He just won't get it. I knew after our second conversation that there were no sparks, and no matter how good he is to me, I can't make my heart feel something that it won't.

He's lack of interest is so blatant, he's not even trying to get the booty.

Yeah, honey; you win some you lose some. Hopefully you won't make too big of a fool of yourself. But by no means, should you ever ever ever chase a man. However, perhaps this is something you need to experience for yourself.

Dress really nice; we love well-groomed people. Go the extra mile to look exceptionally nice, talk about intellectually stimulating things, show your staying power but independence. Sometimes Libras and Capricorns end up together.

I agree. My libra chased from the beginning and was very persistent, wanting to see me all the time. There was no question whether he was interested and he was direct about telling me. He's never gone a day without messaging throughout the entire day, from a good morning, to how's my day going until a goodnight before bedtime.

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@Deedee86
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Since you have mutual friends find out if there are any events or parties going on and show up dressed to kill. There is a good chance that he will be there too and even if he isn't, you may meet someone that appreciates you more.

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by Librawoman77
I can appreciate your forwardness, I am a forward woman myself. However Libra men are cardinals; leaders; they like to initiate. So your forwardness would be more appreciated by a mutable, or feminine sign like Pisces, and Cancer.

Perhaps you are unaware, but most guys like to pursue, if a guy likes you, he won't ignore your text, he will pursue you. He will keep in contact, call, text, etc. You can't "make" someone's heart feel something that it won't. I have had a Capricorn in pursuit of me for nine years. He just won't get it. I knew after our second conversation that there were no sparks, and no matter how good he is to me, I can't make my heart feel something that it won't.

He's lack of interest is so blatant, he's not even trying to get the booty.

Yeah, honey; you win some you lose some. Hopefully you won't make too big of a fool of yourself. But by no means, should you ever ever ever chase a man. However, perhaps this is something you need to experience for yourself.

Dress really nice; we love well-groomed people. Go the extra mile to look exceptionally nice, talk about intellectually stimulating things, show your staying power but independence. Sometimes Libras and Capricorns end up together.

Hey, thanks for your reply. Really appreciate it. & Yes, I read about Libra and know that they like the chase or rather all guys like the chase. He did not ignore my text or rather he did, he just stops replying halfway. He did continue the convo a few times when I did not reply him back.

Thank you, understand what you’re trying to say here, wont make a fool out of myself. Just tho I should go for it if I really have interest in someone instead of waiting for something that might not even happen.

Will do, that’s exactly what I’m gonna do. Anyway, I think my appearance is too wild for him? He commented that before. Maybe I should have a makeover. Thank you.

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by Deedee86
Since you have mutual friends find out if there are any events or parties going on and show up dressed to kill. There is a good chance that he will be there too and even if he isn't, you may meet someone that appreciates you more.

Yes, agree with you. planning to do that too πŸ˜› Thank you! Have a good day!

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@LibraLovesHim
10 Years1,000+ Posts

If you were last to initiate, fallback. Let him come to you. The thing about Libra is people pursue us thinking we want to be chased and they will eventually conquer us-so not the case. You have no idea how many times i've been told "i'm being difficult" "im playing hard to get" etc Who the hell said I want to be got? When we want something we will get it, and you WILL know if we are interested.

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@rainbow33
10 Years

Posted by LibraLovesHim
If you were last to initiate, fallback. Let him come to you. The thing about Libra is people pursue us thinking we want to be chased and they will eventually conquer us-so not the case. You have no idea how many times i've been told "i'm being difficult" "im playing hard to get" etc Who the hell said I want to be got? When we want something we will get it, and you WILL know if we are interested.

Hi, thanks for you advise. I read about it and yea, Libra like the chase not to be chase~ Great day ahead!