SOS LIBRAS!!!

A question for my librans!

So I have a huge attraction towards a libra male that I just met in person after a year and a half of us curving (faking) on each other , it's so fustrating, we text and text everyday when I don't text him first he doesn't text me or when he text me first I don't text him idk what game were playing at I'm just here trying to act like It doesn't bother me but it does....when we make plans he either cancels on me his car brakes down I mean I know he isn't lying to me because he always dents me a picture but idk.....we finally met and spent hours in his car talking and boom we made out for an hour , his grip , smile , hands how he acts like he has control awwwweeee omgggooddneesss I love it anyways......(lol) sooo we made plans to go on a trip for a weekend and it's the same weekend as his sisters birthday and he lives his sister so for a fact I know that he was gonna cancel on me....the other day we didn't text for like 2 days but because I didn't wanna be annoying him I kinda just wanted to give him his space felt like I was texting him too much....& he has said I get on his nerves sooo yeaaa ? we actually spent all the time texting weird daily shit to each other & just laughing it's kinda cute but yes anyways....so he met me called me gorgeous, beautiful u name it after a year and a half....wtf dawg I'm so fucking confuse like u can't come to my house kiss me , talk all sweet to me & just leave me wondering that's not how a Geminis mind works I'm gonna sit here and question it for months....what should I do? Should I stop co texting him at all? Is he playing games? Is he not interested? Ughhh SOS

Ask me anything!!!! I'm more of an expert in Gemini!!

Sounds like he has a gf if you ask me

I doubt that, he got his heart broken and hasn't had one since...& his just always with his family, brother & best friends like he literally tells me what his doing? For no reason but yea I know we're u coming from

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Posted by blackphase
Walk away.. This sounds confusing and I know what direction this is headed. It's gonna be nothing but a headache for you both. As dolluxe said, you are both playing games. Even if you didn't intend to.. you are at least playing his. This is coming from a Gemini who played a Libras game for 2 years.. it also started online and I was lied to a lot in order to win my affection. Be careful.

sounds like your relationship with your libra ended in a pretty bad way.

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me too - just like that ...

Posted by blackphase

Posted by 2Moon

Posted by blackphase
Walk away.. This sounds confusing and I know what direction this is headed. It's gonna be nothing but a headache for you both. As dolluxe said, you are both playing games. Even if you didn't intend to.. you are at least playing his. This is coming from a Gemini who played a Libras game for 2 years.. it also started online and I was lied to a lot in order to win my affection. Be careful.

sounds like your relationship with your libra ended in a pretty bad way.

The entire thing was bad I am just a sucker for punishment I guess. There were many issues from the get go that I ignored due to being in the infatuation love bubble phase and by the time I saw what he really was I was in too deep to escape and I just let it keep snowballing.

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yep, me too, I blame myself also

Awwweeee it's my ego as a Gemini I feel like I took control for a bit & yes I did I killed my ego & was handling it fine..I hung out with him once alll night we didn't do anything at all except probably idk how our lips just locked ...but u all are right this libra isn't giving one f*** about me & yea Ima just leave it at that...

Should I tell him that I like him or how I feel about the situation?

Or shall I just forget about it & leave it at that?

Thank you guys & I will just do that...

The thing is everytime I stop talking to him he messages me saying "i was waiting to see if you text me first, I was testing you"? Testing me whyyyyyy— It's confusing and idk if he is doing it back to me because I'm the beginning when we first started texting that entire year I was curving him I mean like I would reply and than months later I would reply ughhh it's been like that like I feel like I don't know him cause we've never had a full conversation or hung out enough for me to even know him like that ugh whatever Ima drop him it's so easy for me to do it too Idc I just wanted closure into what I got myself into and out of you feel me

I'm so ? confused should I tell him I like him

Posted by Confusedgemini93
I'm so ? confused should I tell him I like him

Don't chase him. I've had a Libra guy continue to chase me and we went on 1 date 2 years ago. He tells me how he should have done things differently with me, that he should have not pursued me so hard and then two days later sends me a video of him fucking some other girl. When I told him I didn't want to see that and to find someone else and leave me alone, he said that was like telling him to find the perfect woman and live happily ever after. Games....games...games.

As a Libra woman, I have many, many men in my "orbit". I used to keep them around intentionally when I was young for attention or an ego boost. Now, they just won't go away even though I discourage them. Either way, he's using you for something. My dad always says, if a man really wants you, he will do everything he can to be with you. Right now, you're this guy's option, not his priority and by answering his texts and being so eager after all this time, you devalue yourself in his eyes. Let it go. There are plenty of others out there.

I think the only way to really know is the continue dating him. See him more often. Let him know that's what you need right now. If he doesn't give it to you, then you know he's not the right one for you.

I think the only way to really know is the continue dating him. See him more often. Let him know that's what you need right now. If he doesn't give it to you, then you know he's not the right one for you.