So after about 4 months, le crab calls

I've never ever had a confused look on my face like I did today. After small subtle shots being thrown at each other through other people I had set in my mind that me and her would never communicate with each other ever again. About 2 hours ago I was left speechless. The ringer on my phone was off and upon looking at my missed phone calls from retrieving my phone from under a pile of clothes I see a number that was familiar to me. Go to voicemails and I hear her voice...I couldn't even listen to the rest of it, I just ended the voicemail and tossed my phone to the side.

For anyone who followed the few threads I made on here, will know what happened and all that jazz..


As of right now, I have no idea what I'm about to do...should I just cuss her out and tell her to fuck off? Or just ignore lol?

I'm fucking lost

Put the thread here so I can read it...this should be interesting. Also we must know what the voicemail said? Apology? Hi how are? What!!! Details please!!!

What happen to being petty and laughing about it—??

@Shaniajam https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/cancer/cancer-ex-finally-texted-me-back-after-a-month-5558228/
Pretty much said I've been on her mind lately and she's been having dreams and wants to know, knows she's the last person I'd think would call..nervous leaving the vm, she misses me. -.-

Asked me to call/talk if I wanted to.



@weeds Lmaoooooo, I am still being petty but it's just like wtf right now.

@blackmamba no, she said she missed giving me head :/

Oooo saucy!! I'm going to read ðŸƒðŸ½ðŸƒðŸ½

@Arielle83 the whole head thing is a joke © our relationship was never like that

@Shaniajam it's so messy © one side of me is saying ignore it the other side is saying call.

So after a 2+ hour comvo yesterday and some awkward texts today...

I get hit with a "haha........" After saying "hahaha I talked about that certain thing a long time ago"


I'm easily irritated now after rewiring my brain and honestly don't even know/feel like responding to the text.

Posted by Arielle83
Ignore her

Just did thanks for he advice, told her to keep happy and enjoy life.

It's about that time for me to close this door for good now and finally just move on.

After catching up with your story , i have alot of things to say. But first id like to ask if you have an aries/taurus moon-
Okay, we are clearly misunderstood.
Id like you to analyze the situation and understand , that for some people its very hard to talk about their feelings because they are afraid of getting hurt.
Look, she (like me - this girl reminds me alot of myself so bear that in mind while i share my opinion) is still a virgin - who number 1 : is afraid of commitment , because she is afraid of getting hurt . Perhaps the reason why she isnt completely straight forward .
have you met her in person? You should be able to read her eyes and body language . Its our way of communicating emotions - we dont wanna tell you that we love you , we want you to feel it . So take this "subliminal messages" as her way of showing you she cares. I know i have ALOT to offer, and my Aries ex from my first serious relationship does too , thats why he still writes me every week months after i broke up w him. So we will test you - we want to see if youre really feeling those "emotions", or if its just lust, cause i aint about to invest in a relationship which will end in like 8 months. So she sort of let you go to see if you would still have feelings for her in the long run - not because she wants to find someone else , but because she wants you to prove youre that someone she can rely on and in return shell give you back just and much and even more. That poem she sent you its so on point (though sending a poem is something i wouldnt do lol) - especially the part where it mentions missing something youve never felt. Ive never been in love but i daydream almost everyday about finding a man with a pure heart and intentions , warm smile and strong arms i can wrap myself in and find peace and comfort.
Number two: shes never been in a relationship so she most probably dosent know what she wants yet. But after spending 2 yrs w my first ex , ik exactly what she needs. She needs a best friend who will comfort her and make her laugh and feel safe around . Someone who isnt "too passionate", but rather demostrares his love for her in sutil ways. Someone who dosent take her for granted and questions her integrity & last but not least, someone who will let her give / do all those things in return.
Look, like me this las probably gets chased by almost every guy she meets. But its very hard for us to find someone who REALLY catches our attention. Only 3 people have been able to do that in my whole life and im 21. So if shes calling you its because you caught her attention and saw potential in you . She clealy wants you to show to her that you care so you can slowly start something. So really its upto you. I hope this helped & at the end of the day , the most imp thing is finding out how much youre willing to do for a person. If you feel like its not in your nature to keep up w her ways then let it go and find someone who makes you happy. u never know unless u try t