do they return

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by LibWman on Monday, October 19, 2015 and has 8 replies.

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@LibWman
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I posted something about a cancer male previously. At this point I don't feel as though he will ever contact me again. I think whatever he said to me in the end was so cold that there's no coming back from it. I don't understand

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I think he will feel bad at some point and apologize. The one I told you about and I got into arguments and he said some bad stuff and stopped talking. But those two times, after awhile he comes back and apologizes saying how he felt bad and was a bad friend.

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@mgmtlove thanks. some other people commented on the other post saying that if he's said he is done and won't speak to me again he means it. Don't know what to think! I believe he should be remorseful for his actions but he didn't seem that way when he left it. He seemed really pleased with himself.

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Posted by LibWman
@mgmtlove thanks. some other people commented on the other post saying that if he's said he is done and won't speak to me again he means it. Don't know what to think! I believe he should be remorseful for his actions but he didn't seem that way when he left it. He seemed really pleased with himself.

It was fatal when you told him you are dating other dude. The trust was broken.

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Mine was done a free times always came back. Said goodbye and made it all dramatic. First fight we had he said ”I said goodbye to you the other day after I quit, but you still keep trying to talk to me byeeee” so I said ok goodbye have a good vacation in Cali. He contact me that same night.

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Meant a few* times. There were other times we were face to face he said goodbye he still came back. And he knew about a guy I was interested/talking to the whole time. I guess it's case to case.

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Cancers can say hurtful shit if they love the person theyre arguing with. Because somehow, we expect you to know us better.
I also think he will eventually come back and probably say sorry if youre willing to assume that you were both wrong. you get what im saying?

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Posted by mgmtlove
Meant a few* times. There were other times we were face to face he said goodbye he still came back. And he knew about a guy I was interested/talking to the whole time. I guess it's case to case.

I'm
Surprised he came back the same night. I think that probably says a lot about how he feels about you. Plus he probably believed you were gone for good or not going to continue to pursue him. I think mine just started thinking she will always be around or will continue to come back and pursue me so he wouldn't even bother. That and he just doesn't care anymore as its been over a week since I swore I was Done.