So..i have sworn off Cancers lol...BUT THIS ONE..!

Hi there 🙂 ok so i have sworn off Cancers lol....due to either the irreputable insecurity and clinginess, or the hell bent "im a hard-ass.. look at me! i, not sensitive all!" behavior which is CLEARLY a facade to hide who they really are and how they really feel. ugh. gag. ugggghhhhh!!!!
Wellll ive met another one..now dont get me wrong!! when i first hear of someone being an Cancer it is almost endearing, as i am a Scorpio and i know how easily we will get along in general 🙂
He is creative, talented, driven, playful and ooooh so very cuddly. and i cannot stop kissing him, as he always wants to be close and smoooooooch...even if its in public, no matter where we are..and, as a huge fan of PDA, safe to say i dont mind one bit.
the first two cancers ive dated were REAL fast in wanting to move forward, as in: the first one i met his parents the next day..the second one, it was only a week before he asked me to be his woman...this one— well.......



we met in a park in our neighborhood where we learned we have mutual friends who go there to play music and paint and be free spirits...the day we met i was mourning a loss, and had a white gardenia flower with me. as my daughter and i were leaving we said our farewells, walked away, but hen i turned back around ran to him and gave him the gardenia i had been carrying with me. when gave it to him, he looked surprised, looked me in my eyes and told me thank you as he sniffed it and told me how pretty it was, even though it had been a little loved on by me lol...i run into him again that evening at our local pub, he speaks, so did i and i go on abt my way........a few nights later, i decide i wanna go up to another local musical venue...as im walking up the sidewalk along the front of the place, lined with a wrought iron fence trimmed in ivy and white "christmas" lights, a voice calls my name from behind it, its him . o.O he says " Heyyy, ive been looking for you.."
im like "ok cool, ill see you inside " i go in we hang out. he gives me a ride home, we hang out more with movies then he crashes on my couch..with me right on his chest.
one of my friends come over the next day to hep me run some errands, and i ask the cancer if hed like to come back later. he did we hang out some more that day. in the park. with his guitar. on a blanket and were just seemingly in our own world, with his head in my lap, me playing in his long hair...so all that day we play and butterfly around eachother....

LOL!!!!

later that evening he asks me, this being only our second day hangin out, " what are you looking for?" i told him i wasnt looking, but i am open to what i feel is right for me. he tells me that he is still trying to figure himself out, and is ready for another relationship after a year of being single after three year relationship, but just dont know who he wants it to be with. i told him to first always be honest with himself, so that he may be honest with others. He opens up and tells me there is another gal hes been talking to, and im like ok..thats fine (afterall, im not invested but i thanked him for being open with me). We hang out again, that same evening actually. we go to a live music show, have a good time, and as were walkin through the rowd of ppl he just, outta nowhere, he says " yeah, ima have to give that other girl a call...lol" " i says " why what do you mean?" ( i knew where he was goin, i just wanted to hear him say it) he just says, " oh you already know haha" and he brushes it off like nothing lol...i knew i coulda got him to say it, if i really wanted to. 😉
SO...needless to say we kept hanging out. he is a musician. i am an artist. he is always askin me, " you get any painting done today?" even when were not together haha...when we go to the park he plays his guitar as i sit, even though im sure he did this before we started hanging out. But between you me and the walls, i found it to be SUUUUUPER ROMANTICAL, but never voiced it bc to him bc what if hes a player right? lol. He told me one day, " we should bring one of your paintings out here one day while i play for you.." *SWOON* "ok cool." and so we did a few days later..wont lie, i didnt feel a connect bc i wasnt feeling what i was drawing at the time... He has been teaching my daughter how to play guitar, as he is a teacher. the other day, he had a music lesson, and asked if i could let him teah it at my house. i was fine with it, and while he taught, i worked on art in the next room. but to my own music on my cd player and such #ArtistSoundTrack lol...just rockin out. havin a good time. feelin the happy art energy all throughout my house hehe...when he was done with his lesson, he comes into the next room, gives me praise ( bc for a while i didnt feel motivated to do any art, just model, dance and network..givin it a rest so to speak) and sits down with his guitar. "Arrrrgh" i thinks to myself bc im reeeeeeally not wanting to turn off my tunes hahaha....as he is sitting there

beginning to pluck at his guitar, i ask him if hed like me to turn off the stereo, he nods that sweet head of his. i comply. SO. the next thing i knew, we were in my living room, he is playing his own written music and i am on my painting and words cannot describe the experience. words were not exchanged. nor glances either...and before i knew it i had such a big part of my work done, and was very pleased with my results..and then thought " oh my. we created together..." i have NEVER done this before..painted with another painter yes, but not like this...it was pretty intimate, and NO we had not slept together even!
Anywho, he inspires me. o.O, and adores my daughter, for he goes around telling everyone how much of a genious she is and etc. and then of course there are the little things in between such as taking me out with friends or to drink or eat..so i guess my question is, Cancer men, is he just playin? just being the nice guy? Or do you think he wants way more than a casual thing with me?

TrueCancer, what is so funny??

Also, all of this has happened in just a WEEK! haha he hasnt asked me to be his woman, and im wondering why hes not doin the same Cancer stuff as the other ones, or if he is even into e at all 😉

*me...and id question stuff abt the said other person hed been talking to if it werent for the fact that weve spent so much time together...hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Yes. another Scorpio. Dont hate.😉 Stick to the subject please. unless this is the only place you can air your redundant two cents.. i guess Facebook was busy, and so here you are.........TROLLIN. well. troll away, nice and hidden behind your nifty little laptop. 😄

Posted by guiwaterdaymaster
I think it s great... Cancers normally always want to have something more if there is a deep emotional connection... which there seems to be... he could have off setting factors... but it sounds like you hare watering the seeds of what could be puppy love...

Don't question it just let it happen naturally...

He may just be waiting for the right time to ask you to be his lady... some men like to be romantic about it... I am guessing he is this way. He sound healthy and balances... I am happy for you...

PM

Thank you for a REAL response, PM... he hasnt jumped to sleep with me, and says things like " we have all the time in the world"...... we have slept in the same bed, smooches, but nothing more..feels nice, so yeah i think ill just roll with it. :3