How to tell my guy cancer friend that i like him.

I met this guy a few months ago and we just got close in a friendship type way. He has figured me out better than anyone else ever has and i am begining to have feelings for him but i dont know how to tell him or if he will feel the same way. I know that other better females like him. I am a pisces female if that helps.

Posted by sky1
Just tell him .Cancer are not considered to be a complicated guy type.

True but if she showed it, or rather expressed it in an aggressive, confrontational or even a direct manner, that would cause the Crab man to retreat like none other, they much prefer a indirectly direct approach, be subtle and gentle about it.

Just tell him. He will respond in a very sensitive and understanding way, whether he's interested or not. Cancer guys are good like that.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by sky1
Just tell him .Cancer are not considered to be a complicated guy type.

True but if she showed it, or rather expressed it in an aggressive, confrontational or even a direct manner, that would cause the Crab man to retreat like none other, they much prefer a indirectly direct approach, be subtle and gentle about it.

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Yes, gentle is key.

Posted by swatches
I met this guy a few months ago and we just got close in a friendship type way. He has figured me out better than anyone else ever has and i am begining to have feelings for him but i dont know how to tell him or if he will feel the same way. I know that other better females like him. I am a pisces female if that helps.

You will never know for certain how he feels, that is the beauty of the courtship 'dance', determine whether this is truly what you want firstly. Fret not about the other 'better' females, if he has decided he has the same feelings for you in return, they will never let you go from their pincers!

How is your level of affection with him? From 1-10?

I would say that on a level of 1-10 I would say that i am attracted to him about a 7 but it is progressive.

Posted by juke
better?

Yes I would say that they are better than me. I just know of them because he told me about them.

If you want a cancer boy to know you're interested, SHOW it. Just treat him like he's more than a friend. The key is being gentle, give him genuine compliments about his looks & really touch him a lot in a girly way. He'll get the picture. 🙂

Another point, if HE really likes you a lot too, it won't matter how you tell him. He would just be glad you did! lol
Good luck 🙂

Thanks for all the useful advise. I will use it today and post how it went here tommorow

Posted by swatches
I would say that on a level of 1-10 I would say that i am attracted to him about a 7 but it is progressive.

Oh dear, I should have reworded my question. What I meant to ask- How affectionate are you with each other, in the presence of others as opposed to being in a place of privacy? A 1-10 rating for both scenarios, please.

(By affectionate I mean hugging, hand holding, hair brushing, small gestures and so forth...)

WIOTPW! Whip it out the playa way!