Cervical Cancer

I might have it. And well... I dont know how to tell my loved ones.

Im scared... I dont want to put my family, friends, and boyfriend through any of this.

I dont know what to do.

I have a feeling Im going to start pushing everyone away so that they wont feel sorry for me.

Its fine that it may be happening to me, I just dont want the negativity to affect anyone.

There is a natural flow of things.

If you indeed do have it, you will need to remain as calm and as peaceful as you can be to help you get through this as quickly and as painlessly as possible. That is a natural objective and you staying peaceful and calm is critical to that objective.

Now when it comes to friends and family, it is expected of them to help you through all the difficult times that you can go through in your life, or at the very least conditions like this one. That is again is the natural flow of things. Families and friends support.

You need that support cause you shouldn't be anywhere near this level of stress out right now.

Just let the natural flow take its course, tell your family and friends, calmly and soberly, get whatever needs to be done, done and start living again.

Yeah... I am happy and healthy though lol. Thats true.. I have my screening on the 21st... If I think about it too much I'll start panicking so I wont think about it until then...

I dont think I will tell my bf just yet because it may very well be nothing.

Research till your very eyes fall from their sockets. Then research more. It is best to be armed with every bit of knowledge you can fill your cranium with. This serves two purposes: You know what you're dealing with. 2: It occupies your time so you're not making yourself a basket case.

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Awww pb 😢 I hope you don't and things are ok ((((hugs)))))

Have you done the test ? Or you just think you may have this ? Do not worry in anything, life is so short , just live untill the last day, but LIVE ! We all meet there in one day, no one remain here . If I would have a problem like this, I tell you, I would not be sorry for anything because I lived so beautiful moments until now . At least you are happy , you have a family who loves you, parents who care about you, boyfriend who loves you, friends who loves you too. I have nothing and this is why I would not be sorry now if will happen something. So be happy ! And there exist total histerectomy that solve this kind of cancer, maybe is better do it urgently and you and your doctor can keep the secret for what you do that. I met a woman , 80 years old who told me she had done this at 24 , she was married at that time and her husband knew only when she was 70.... She was fine all her life after this. They had no kids, but they love each other as 2 young lovers. I admired them so much . And with love around you, you can survive in any situation, but without love, you feel you die... Wish you good luck !

Thanks guys. VB and Limm! I just got off the phone with my doctor and she said Im fine!

This has to be the scariest thing ever. It puts things in perspective. Live life to the fullest you just dont wanna grow old and look back and be filled with the regret of not trying.

♥

Posted by Julya22
Have you done the test ? Or you just think you may have this ? Do not worry in anything, life is so short , just live untill the last day, but LIVE ! We all meet there in one day, no one remain here . If I would have a problem like this, I tell you, I would not be sorry for anything because I lived so beautiful moments until now . At least you are happy , you have a family who loves you, parents who care about you, boyfriend who loves you, friends who loves you too. I have nothing and this is why I would not be sorry now if will happen something. So be happy ! And there exist total histerectomy that solve this kind of cancer, maybe is better do it urgently and you and your doctor can keep the secret for what you do that. I met a woman , 80 years old who told me she had done this at 24 , she was married at that time and her husband knew only when she was 70.... She was fine all her life after this. They had no kids, but they love each other as 2 young lovers. I admired them so much . And with love around you, you can survive in any situation, but without love, you feel you die... Wish you good luck !

Thank you!!

So I gotta ask, what was it that made you think you had cervical cancer? Abnormal cells?

Posted by Peanutbutter
Thanks guys. VB and Limm! I just got off the phone with my doctor and she said Im fine!

This has to be the scariest thing ever. It puts things in perspective. Live life to the fullest you just dont wanna grow old and look back and be filled with the regret of not trying.

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Good deal...I'm glad everything is fine pb 🙂

Posted by Peanutbutter
Thanks guys. VB and Limm! I just got off the phone with my doctor and she said Im fine!

This has to be the scariest thing ever. It puts things in perspective. Live life to the fullest you just dont wanna grow old and look back and be filled with the regret of not trying.

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In order to live life to the fullest is to avoid sleeping around.

What causes cervical cancer isn't clear. However, it's certain that the sexually transmitted infection called human papillomavirus (HPV) plays a role. While HPV is a very common virus, most women with HPV never develop cervical cancer. This means other risk factors — such as your genetic makeup, your environment or your life style choices — also determine whether you'll develop cervical cancer.
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/cervical-cancer/DS00167/DSECTION=causes