taupixie
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Sorry I Just Miss Him
@Naturally thank you *hugs* I'm doing fine. There isn't a day that goes by without thinking of him, but I'm doing well holding off the compulsion to reach out to him. Self-talk reminding myself that he simply isn't into this & there's nothing else that I could do to make it better is helpful 🙂
Aw don't be sorry... 😢 I checked your profile to see what you're talking about. Sweetie, you need a guy that will love you for who you are. Aqua-Leo axis has a !generally! superficial taste for women, even though they're fixed. Don't waste more months in despair... you'll feel much better without his presence in your life
You know how liberating the feeling of letting go is
You know how liberating the feeling of letting go is
Love and relationships is something else..I always wonder why we just can't find the one ..right away. Then when I think about the lessons we learn by meet people I understand it. It hurt but I think we need to hurt to learn lessons. Ask yourself what is the lessons that need to be taught from this.
Appreciate all the insightful sharing & thoughts on this. I wish everyone well too.
@Infinite8 thank you too.
As @Fragrance pointed out, I'm feeling more liberated & empowered to be able to absolutely restrain myself from contacting him in about 2 weeks now. My thoughts are free-er from obsessively thinking of him, although I admit I haven't totally move on from him yet... 🙂
@Infinite8 thank you too.
As @Fragrance pointed out, I'm feeling more liberated & empowered to be able to absolutely restrain myself from contacting him in about 2 weeks now. My thoughts are free-er from obsessively thinking of him, although I admit I haven't totally move on from him yet... 🙂
Posted by taupixieWe are in this together. I'm going through the same thing. I had no feelings for him and then boom! Out of nowhere, it all came back yesterday when a girl on tv said "I need him. I need my friend right now...". It just made a week of no contact today and because I'm young and a little intoxicated, I almost gave in but no. I feel so much better that I'm almost over the romantic part and he and I could be normal friends again. Good luck on your journey! ☺
Appreciate all the insightful sharing & thoughts on this. I wish everyone well too.
@Infinite8 thank you too.
As @Fragrance pointed out, I'm feeling more liberated & empowered to be able to absolutely restrain myself from contacting him in about 2 weeks now. My thoughts are free-er from obsessively thinking of him, although I admit I haven't totally move on from him yet... 🙂
Posted by taupixieYet. 🙂
Appreciate all the insightful sharing & thoughts on this. I wish everyone well too.
@Infinite8 thank you too.
As @Fragrance pointed out, I'm feeling more liberated & empowered to be able to absolutely restrain myself from contacting him in about 2 weeks now. My thoughts are free-er from obsessively thinking of him, although I admit I haven't totally move on from him yet... 🙂
Hopefully you'll feel like this soon:
@yauniboo777 good luck to you on your journey too.
@Fragrance it's hard to not care for someone who keeps baiting you with subtle hints :]
@Fragrance it's hard to not care for someone who keeps baiting you with subtle hints :]
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