Step kids

I've been dating this guy for three months. I love him with everything in my heart but the other day he told me he was married with three kids. We've layed in bed many times talking about the future,getting married and having children but he's always been uncommitted and very aloof.

The other day he came to my house and confessed everything. I was shocked but he promised to leave her and give me the life I've always dreamed of but I can't do it. I don't want step children. I want him and him alone. I didn't buy into this relationship with children attached and I'm not willing to except them. Am I being selfish or is he?

Do I have any choices here? He say's he is willing to give up his children but I don't believe him. I want to bring up my own children not someone elses.

what can I do to assure he will do what he say's?

HOW THE HELL can you fix YOUR mouth to call someone else a SLUT when you are lusting after a married man?

I bet you are the type of Cancer that OneFineAquarius and PrimeGen are talking about...Whiney and STUPID!

Let's see...I'll answer your questions

Am I being selfish or is he?

DUH, what about the wife dummy-o? BOTH of you asses are being selfish, but I wouldn't expect anything more from someone that is retarded enough to call someone else a slut and she's sleeping with another woman's man. I would rather sleep with a THOUSAND single men than with some two-timing DOG who's married and leading your stupid ass on to REALLY think he is going to leave his wife. Again I say DUUUUUH!

He say's he is willing to give up his children but I don't believe him. I want to bring up my own children not someone elses.

OMG HELLO! WHAT IN THE WORLD makes you think that he would NOT do the same to you after you have his children? Do you HONESTLY think a man that is willing to give up his CHILDREN will give a flying Fukk about your OR yours? Wake UP! You are killing me! SERIOUSLY...

Before you pass judgement on my, Daemon, STD, or Missy Elliot's actions, you need to look REAL HARD at yourself because you have some serious freaking issues!

Thanks for listening...
CancerLADY/CancerMamaDeuce...

PS. You got the name Biatch right, I'll give you some credit for knowing what you are.

yup,you and him both are being selfish,if he's willing to give up his children means he's a deadbeat dad and you want this—?Get over yourselves already the kids didn't ask for any of that nor do they deserve it just because as they didn't come out of you.

HELLO!

It AMAZES me how everyone on this board can call me a slut (not you Tia, thanks! also not Alana or STD) but noone EVER says anything about these women who chase after married men?

I mean when I wrote the post about Oral Sex, is it cheating...I had people coming out of the WOODWORK with judgements even though all parties concerned were single (not married) and consenting adults...you are a whore, you are a slut

BUT when it's about a woman chasing a married man, Oh that's fine. COME ON! I know according to some I have some pretty loose morals, but I would NEVER NEVER NEVER try to break up a marriage. Happy or not!

Where are all these people at? Hmmm? Boy this just KILLS ME!

By the way...CancerBiatch...I just MIGHT be the skankiest girl on DXP, depending on who's doing the judging, but at least the men I sleep with (including my baby's father) are SINGLE! They don't have broken-hearted wives to go home to. If that makes me a skank...Like I always say...I'll BE DAT!

And WHILE we are on the subject...biatch

WHY is it ALWAYS the woman's fault if she gets pregnant by a man and he leaves her? Could it be that perhaps he was just a jerk? No...the woman automatically becomes the slut because men have TOTAL immunity when it comes to sexual situations.

Why didn't you call Daemon a skank? Hmmm? He is nastier than I AM! (Don't worry Daemon, I like it...just trying to make a point)

You are just bitter because you can't have the man you want because he is married and you know in your heart of hearts that he's not going to leave his wife and even if he does, that doesn't mean he won't cheat on you!

I am too through!

I don't think this "person" is coming back. Just like Toto, she just wanted to raise hell and run. Or maybe the DXP moderator banned her.. (which wouldn't be anything less than what she deserves). She's probably not coming back.. and if she does, she needs to learn how to play nice.

Apparently they erased some of the worst things she said...also somethings that I said also...

SO I guess it is a pretty fair exchange.

yeeaaaaaah babbby yeaaah,doo doo doo doo doo,SHAGGADELIC,lol. Hmm cancerbiatch seems rather quiet hmmmmmmm. Me skanky your too kind too kind,lol. u know AUSTIN POWERS is a cancer too,lol. YEAAAH BABYY YEAAAAAAHHH.