help!! question...

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Ana on Wednesday, September 21, 2005 and has 8 replies.

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@Ana
20 Years

Okay, i was dating a cancer for 3 months, and i am a libra..and i consider myself good-loooking (not be concited ) anyways, this Cancer called me all the time to hang out and we had so much chemistry and we were amazing togewther. But we were only sexually involved twice!!!!! its like he never tried!! He was scared and would hold himself back,...the only thing he sis say was...i love this and u drive me crazy, but it was very silent and slow!!! i dont get it...my intuition tells me that this guy really did like me, wqhat do u guys think— help me pleaseeeee

He's 25...

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Again, open up more, kiss, hug and grind, the cancer needs warmth to be any good in bed, and libras can seem to be cold. That's why i usually lose my patience with them, it's like they don't have a pulse. 25 for a cancer is young anyway. Try being good friends, that's more likely to work, you don't seem very "intimate".

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@19Eleven
21 YearsScorpio

Not just cold but too judgemental too. Crab loves to be made feel that his wish and opinions count. How ever softly projected cancer man does not accept any kind of impositions on him.That kills his passion.

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

OR...

He could just like it nice and slow...I sometimes wish more men (and women sometimes) would just slow down, relax, and enjoy the closeness and intimacy of sex. Not just always out to get a nut...okay well that is the ultimate goal, but to enjoy the feel of another human's warmth, the pressure of their sexual organ against or inside of yours...It's phenomenal even if you are not in love per se.

Me & my Sag deliberately did that one night...just went very slow and talked little to none, and it was like no other experience. AND the Taurus (married unfortunately but I didn't know at the time) was the only guy to make me orgasm in missionary position because he took it really slow & stimulated parts I never knew I had!

Ana...look at the bright side, at least he isn't a slam bam thank you mam type! Enjoy it for what it is!

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@cancerlady
21 Years1,000+ Posts

HUGE MISTAKE!

Don't ask, it was circumstantial...We were both homeless & staying in a hotel so we figured why not pool our $ $ $ together and get one room rather than two. (My practical Cancer side got me in BIG trouble with this one)

Eight months of PURE HELL! I tell Cancers world-wide...DON'T EVER DATE A SAG! Listen to the astrologers on this one...it will NOT work.