Sun Moon and Venus in Cancer

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I'll report back once the real craziness appears. Hah! So far he's only pulled disappearance acts and is kinda moody. He would come back and say the sweetest things but no follow through. A lot of highs and lows. I'm kinda used to emotionally and verbally abusive men so this is a walk in the park for me. He's not verbally abusive but when he pulls away too much it does get to me emotionally and kinda feels like I am getting the silent treatment. Sexy as hell. I think this might be long and dragged out cuz I don't want to give up on him...we'll see.

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I'll report back once the real craziness appears. Hah! So far he's only pulled disappearance acts and is kinda moody. He would come back and say the sweetest things but no follow through. A lot of highs and lows. I'm kinda used to emotionally and verbally abusive men so this is a walk in the park for me. He's not verbally abusive but when he pulls away too much it does get to me emotionally and kinda feels like I am getting the silent treatment. Sexy as hell. I think this might be long and dragged out cuz I don't want to give up on him...we'll see.



is it really worth it?
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is it really worth it?

@CrabPrincess..Uh yea...he's so worth it. He's absolutely amazing. I learned so much about myself when dealing with him. I learned to be more patient and kind and take more time out to understand another person better. I am a Gem through and through but because of him I am more willing to stick it out and see what's the hype all about. And boy has he been worth it so far. As an Gem I get so detached so easily but for him I learned to not do that. It is so hard but I stick it out and gosh I always get to reap the rewards when he comes back better than before. Cancers really are like the moon and the tides of the ocean. Ebbing and flowing back and forth in beautiful waves. I love the ocean and I love the moon. I'll learn to swim in it and not drown.

@clutch...you said it just right. Charming and Sexy you guys are indeed. My cancer is the funniest and sexiest animal I've encountered in a long long time. He knows exactly what to say and do to get me going.
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I'll report back once the real craziness appears. Hah! So far he's only pulled disappearance acts and is kinda moody. He would come back and say the sweetest things but no follow through. A lot of highs and lows. I'm kinda used to emotionally and verbally abusive men so this is a walk in the park for me. He's not verbally abusive but when he pulls away too much it does get to me emotionally and kinda feels like I am getting the silent treatment. Sexy as hell. I think this might be long and dragged out cuz I don't want to give up on him...we'll see.



is it really worth it?



I don't think you understand how charming and sexy we cancer men are.
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No i really don't lol I have a few cancer male friends who are just crazy. The cancer guys I'm around are all arrogant mr know it alls and will talk your ear off when they have a problem. They don't care about your problems only theirs. Such women. Anyways I used to like a cancer not to long ago. I know how they can be so hopefully i'll meet a cancer guy who will make me change my mind about you guys.
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Posted by geminibunny
is it really worth it?

@CrabPrincess..Uh yea...he's so worth it. He's absolutely amazing. I learned so much about myself when dealing with him. I learned to be more patient and kind and take more time out to understand another person better. I am a Gem through and through but because of him I am more willing to stick it out and see what's the hype all about. And boy has he been worth it so far. As an Gem I get so detached so easily but for him I learned to not do that. It is so hard but I stick it out and gosh I always get to reap the rewards when he comes back better than before. Cancers really are like the moon and the tides of the ocean. Ebbing and flowing back and forth in beautiful waves. I love the ocean and I love the moon. I'll learn to swim in it and not drown.

@clutch...you said it just right. Charming and Sexy you guys are indeed. My cancer is the funniest and sexiest animal I've encountered in a long long time. He knows exactly what to say and do to get me going.



I'm surprised your a Gemini sun dealing with all this. Usually Geminis would just give up by now. I have a gemini moon so my ass would of been done I have no time to babysit or deal with bullshit. i need a real man.
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I'm just as surprised as any of you are that I'm still in this. I really wanted to give up 4 months ago but then he came back full force and said exactly what I wanted to hear and promised the usual promises. He was consistent for a few weeks then slowly but surely I was ignored again....but...I'm ok with it now. He's very good at explaining himself to me.

I do have a tendency to run which I'm fighting hard and resisting every day. I guess this is my way of showing him that he is worth it. I'd like to think that I'd launch a thousand ships for him.

The thing is he never talks my ears off about himself. He'd rather hear my problems and he always asks me to vent and tells me he is always there for me. But he wouldn't do any venting of his own. Very rare. To me he is such a gem. He likes to think he can handle everything on his own and stays positive and strong. He also doesn't like to show me any vulnerability or weakness. But he is just so soft and sweet I just know it without him having to be obvious about it.