Cancer venus just wants to moan

and not in a good way. 😢

Im venus in cancer (and mars too)...my heart is hurting cus I lost my saggie man. 😢

All I wanna do is moan. And droan. And yearn. I do this when I'm sick. "Ohhhhh Im so sickkkkk".

Is this typical of Cancers? Am I alone in this?

Meh 😢

Ive always been like this and when I learned about astrology and cancer placements, it started to make sense. Its nice to know Im not alone.

Posted by sugaries
*hug*

Thanks, doll. That helps. 🙂

😢

Well, there's always the next adventure!

*hands tissue to BGP*

I really don't think you did anything wrong, BGP. You may have pulled away, which yes can be confusing and hurt at times if you're on the receiving end, but you've acknowledged it both to yourself and to him. Which in reality it not only is being honest of you, but you also placed a trust in him that you can share those types of feelings, etc. From there you both move on together, learn from it and grow the relationship together. To strengthen things, even if it started/based from your fears. So if he's chosen to sulk, or to not want to vocalize his needs or concerns over that or whatever else, that is or becomes his issue(s) ... not yours. That's his choice to act/react that way, so you can't beat yourself up as though that's your fault. Not when you've acknowledged your part in what happened.

I didn't realize your Mars was Cancer, so with your Venus your heart I know is heavy and breaking right now. It truly is hard w/ Cancer placements. The feeling of overwhelming emotions and thoughts can consume not only your mind but at times your life. Hiding in bed, sad songs, kleenexes, lost in thoughts become part of your healing until you've hit the deepest and darkest spot. Sometimes it takes a bit, other times not, but you know when that time has come to come back up and out of hiding. The grand part is you're not going to be the same person as you were before. IMHO, it's a process that HAS to happen w/ Cancer placements, and to deny it or to hurry it along only prolongs the outcome of what's good and waiting ahead for you. So embrace this time.

I can't categorize all Sag men the same, I have awesome Sag male friends. However, in dating one or two, the last being a Sag sun, Cancer moon (reverse of my placements), what I see w/ your Saggie is so similar to the one I dated a few years ago, I kinda cringe. And I say that because w/ that heavy of a water placement in him makes the manipulation of waterbabies rear it's ugly head. It took just a few 'odd' moments (nothing I vocalized to him)for me to really concentrate on patterns w/ him. And when I did? I couldn't look at him the same way, and realized there was no way in HELL I could ever date let alone be with him for life. Even if on the outside he's kind as any woman would want. He turned out to very controlling, manipulating, and down right a big baby who literally pouted when he didn't get his way. YUCK!

Yeah it hurts like a betch but it goes away.

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thanks guys....it just hurts, ya know?

Not sure what you mean by "venus/pluto" aspect but if you explain, I will look at my chart.

Venus cancer is an owwie of the first order.

Not easy to have a water Venus, I know. Venus Cancer seems to be the only Venus sign as tough to deal with as Venus Scorpio.

Cookies may be useful right now. But not the crispy crap...get those warm, soft chewy Toll House cookies out the oven. 🙂

I didn't realize it was hidden, I had another one too I found that way. I hope your heart is healing.