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semperfibabe
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I know some of you know that my cancer serves in the marine corps. I feel so out of place when we couldn't keep in touch, because of his demanding job he's constantly out in the field for trainings...prepare for the next upcoming deployement, you know always on the alert. I'm keeping my fingers cross and hope the war would soon be ended. Thank goodness I heard the Iraq is finally in the process of setting up her own government, meaning we can finally withdraw our troops little by little. I really hate this war but I support my marine and all those that's serving for our country and defensing for the freedom.

So, I havent' been able to hear from him for almost a week now. It gets so frustrated and worry the same time hoping he's doing okay. Well, I guess I just need to vent, that's all. I think it kinda gets to me sometimes that since he's a cancer, you know those mood swings plus the nature of his job, and the long distance thing....it just makes things more challenge to me to deal with. Not that I'm complaining but I just want some pats on the shoulders and hear people tell me "hey, it'll be alright...", just like he always does, his my comfort and my rock. I miss my marine so so so so much...😢 Feel like crying now gosh....
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tauruschic
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Helllllllllllllllllloo Semperfibabe 🙂 Feeling low ey? Well that's not good 😢 So cheer up!

Concern because of his job and moodswings? Lol Nope nope nope... there are two types of crabbies (I bunched them up in my mind ha ha) but I just know that yours is in the same 'group' as mine. They may be a lil' moody but that isn't the case when they are on a task! These crabbies are SMART, keen, shrewd, with razor-sharp minds I tell you! Atleast (from what I've observed) these traits are more dominant with these fellas 🙂 That is one of things that really attracted me to my crab.

But I know what you're going through since my last crabby was in the military too, on deployment for six months and when he came back he was stationed 8 hrs. away so he only came down on weekends 😢 But atleast I got to see him 🙂 Time flies so don't dwell on it, it's not worth it... instead I lovedddd writing him long e-mails or writing him letters or drawing him funny animations (it's a habit lol) make up stories about us in diff. scenerios, funny poems and one romantic one that he loved and memorized by heart. When he came back he recited it to me, word for word *sigh*

So instead of feeling sad, feel proud and instead of crying write him how you feel. You'll be together and that's what matters 🙂
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semperfibabe
@semperfibabe
19 Years

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yeah I would write him emails, leaving him offline messages and update the blog that I created for him whenever we couldn't talk to each other. When I get in the office, the first thing I do is sit down and write him an email; by doing so makes me feel like he's just right there with me, though we are far apart. Other times I would go back and read all the emails that he wrote me so that I wouldn't miss him too much.

I'm so lucky to have him because he's my proud marine and proud of what he does for our country. It's cute that he would say he feels lucky too to have me as his proud marine girl 🙂 Whenever I'm down he would encourage me and comfort me. His favorite line for me is "you're being silly..." and then he would start his usual caring conversation with me and make sure I feel better again. It feels good to have someone believe in you and understand you so completely and cares about you. I'm the "when the going gets tough, the tough gets going" type of personn, so yep, I'm here standing tall and proud for my man.

Yeah please keep our troops in our prayers, thanks!!🙂
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semperfibabe
@semperfibabe
19 Years

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haha lmao why so cretical and judemental? Well this is an open forum here so I can post whatever I like to and to those who know me. It's none of your concern if you don't like it then be my guest go somewhere else. And who do you think you are to judge other peopel by God. Well, if I'm the dumb one, then I wonder who is that dumbest one...hmm the one who is making big fuss about my posting....lmao. God bless you girl,loosen up haha