Surprising update (for those that remember)

Hello crabbies and non-crabbies that reside here,

Do you remember this story?

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=1180826&p=1&sort=asc

Well here is the update.

Me and Cancer had a serious chat last night and true feelings were all revealed. I finally just blurted out that I really liked him - MORE than a friend. He was shocked. Utterly shocked. He had no idea that I liked him in this way. The smile that spread across his face - it was adorable and his eyes lit up.

He had no idea how I felt about him since we met and was pleasantly shocked. His gf (for now) But he says there are No plans for marriage at all and was telling me how she bugs him and 'hen pecks' at him.

He said that me and him struck an instant rapport since the beginning and that I was the perfect match for him.

Alas! Im seeing him in a few hours after work to talk about the future. Ive finally got him! So for those that thought he would never leave his gf - were WRONG!

Now I wish I had told him sooner. But I had a feeling he would Never make the first move.

Im so glad I did...I am currently on could 9...

Oops cloud*

Weeeeellll! Talk about a silver lining,light at the end of the rainbow...and such. Guess he finally woke up. Congrats!

Update - Yes he has now officially broken up with his gf (ex now). We spoke properly on Thursday night and he finally told her yesterday that he is leaving her. This didnt come as a shock to her - he told me that she had a feeling that he was being distant and not himself. So she noticed. However, they are going to stay friends.

I dont know all the details of what they talked about nor do I wish to - because they are OVER. He's moving out this weekend and going to live with his parents until he finds somewhere else to live.

We spent the whole of yesterday together - it was lovely - like a dream come true. I am still speechless and have to pinch myself that this has actually happened.

Normally I love my space and dont like people hanging around me for too long - but I LOVE spending time with him and him with me. We are just so natural together.

So any of you women on here with Cancer men - be on your toes... Your Cancer male may be having it away with a Scorpion.... hehe

kinda sucks for the ex..its obvious that cancer guy basically dumped her for you when you told him how you felt...

yeah thats fucked up, be careful and pray that he doesn't do the same thing to you...

hate to chime in on this one but in my experience yes, this IS very cancer. Lets not forget that henry the 8th was a cancer!! They are serial monogamists. Having said all that, I wish u guys luck and success. But remember this for the future and remember to make him have to "chase" you once in awhile......

Actually, this isn't surprising. Not to me anyway. I'm thinking he might give your investigative skills a workout, SS. I'm sure you're up the challenge, though. Good luck!