newtothis
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Talking with my Cancer ex- any hope of reconciliation?
Keep in mind that Mercury is in retrograde. I think if you do end up together, it may not last.
Wait until it goes direct (October 1st) and then see if you gain some clarity.
Wait until it goes direct (October 1st) and then see if you gain some clarity.
Proceed by going no contact.
Posted by newtothisPosted by LadyNeptune
Proceed by going no contact.
Why?click to expand
So you can get over him. He's told you there's no getting back together.
Posted by newtothisPosted by LadyNeptune
Proceed by going no contact.
Why?click to expand
A few times I have asked to meet and he will say "I don't see us going back" or "it is too hard for me to see an ex."
Staying in contact is not going to change his mind about being with you again or even meeting up in person. But continuing the texting allows him to not miss you. Not really.
Your still giving him attention and leaving the door open. Shut it. Firmly. Then see if the whole ‘you don’t know what you got till it’s gone’ plays out for him. Probably not cause dude dumped you the first go around without even a decent explanation. But hey, there’s a small possibility.
What I want to know is why your so attached to a relationship that only lasted a few months? Is it really him you miss or the fantasy of him and what could’ve been.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by newtothisPosted by LadyNeptune
Proceed by going no contact.
Why?
A few times I have asked to meet and he will say "I don't see us going back" or "it is too hard for me to see an ex."
Staying in contact is not going to change his mind about being with you again or even meeting up in person. But continuing the texting allows him to not miss you. Not really.
Your still giving him attention and leaving the door open. Shut it. Firmly. Then see if the whole ‘you don’t know what you got till it’s gone’ plays out for him. Probably not cause dude dumped you the first go around without even a decent explanation. But hey, there’s a small possibility.
What I want to know is why your so attached to a relationship that only lasted a few months? Is it really him you miss or the fantasy of him and what could’ve been.click to expand
We have similar interests that not many have at our age (I'm 26; he's 30). No one ever treated me the way he did either.
Aries and Cancer are square to each other.
I thought you were in love with someone new. What happened to that?
Posted by geminiflyby
I thought you were in love with someone new. What happened to that?
No, I thought it was developing into love, but it was just a friendship.
Posted by Reincarnation5
Aries and Cancer are square to each other.
Can you explain more in depth please?
Posted by newtothisPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by newtothisPosted by LadyNeptune
Proceed by going no contact.
Why?
A few times I have asked to meet and he will say "I don't see us going back" or "it is too hard for me to see an ex."
Staying in contact is not going to change his mind about being with you again or even meeting up in person. But continuing the texting allows him to not miss you. Not really.
Your still giving him attention and leaving the door open. Shut it. Firmly. Then see if the whole ‘you don’t know what you got till it’s gone’ plays out for him. Probably not cause dude dumped you the first go around without even a decent explanation. But hey, there’s a small possibility.
What I want to know is why your so attached to a relationship that only lasted a few months? Is it really him you miss or the fantasy of him and what could’ve been.
We have similar interests that not many have at our age (I'm 26; he's 30). No one ever treated me the way he did either.click to expand
Treated you as disposable without a solid explanation as to why? I certainly hope not!
I feel like I need to get out the spray bottle.
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