I know I've come on here asking questions about cancer men because let's face it.. Sitting around waiting for them to come around is boring, and as an over analyzing person (Virgo), while I'm sitting waiting of course I start second guessing the guy's interest in me. Everytime I've ever had a crush that didn't pan out, it was because of this: I showed too much interest. Now I'm not saying you should play hard to get, or ignore them, or seem distant and aloof. But I AM saying that all people, men and women alike, love the chase. That is why you're so head over heels for this cancer in the first place. He's so moody, and often in his shell.. You can never tell if he's interested and that keeps YOU interested. We always want what we think we can't have. I'm sure you've had men after you that you weren't interested in and it was so easy to not text them unles they texted you, call them, etc. So this is the best way to show you are interested, but not desperate. A prize to be won, an independent woman who has value and class. Mirroring. It's simple. He texts you, you text him back. He calls, you call him back. Let him initiate. I am SO impatient and very aggressive so I've always failed at this. Until I met this cancer. He is the shyest guy I have ever known, and yet, he always contacts me first. Hell, he's a total caveman when it comes to technology and we live 3 hours away, so I might not hear from him except once a week. But I don't bug him, and I trust that he's not talking to other girls. Like I said, shyest guy ever, yet he initiates. Let the man be a man and contact you. They don't think about us constantly like we think about them. It's hard to wrap your brain around a man's brain since we are very different. Hes hungry, he eats. Tired, he sleeps. Feisty.. Well you get the picture. If he's in the mood to talk to you, he will. Just mirror him. That is all.
