This Cancerian girl is mad at me...

So we were mad at each other at some point, but it got better. Now the silence treatment is on again. I'm kinda guessing maybe it's because I unfriended her on facebook, even though it's a strange reason to be mad at somebody? Her emotions just swing so unpredictably I can't catch up with her. This minute she's bright and cheerful, then grumpy the next. What does she want?
I'm Aqua.

So the Aqua Crab saga continues.
And it's not even officially spring yet.....

Who is she to you?

Judging by the fact that you described her as "This Cancer girl" and unfriended her on FB;
she's not your girlfriend, nor your friend?

Why do you care?
You clearly don't like her.

She's my sister, and I love her. I just can't stand her attitude at times, and want some privacy 'online' so that what we do on fb won't bother each other. I still care, pay attention to her in real life.

Our ways annoy each other, because we're different. I remain silent when she does things I don't like, and she still somehow takes it as negative, maybe rude or uncaring. She's asking for something but doesn't want to say it directly, that's probably the reason for all the overreaction. Yes, like all girls, she wants things her way.

I knew something was off.
I just remembered why I went on a sabbatical from this place.
You really set this up to play like it was drama between you and some random girl(friend),
then reveal in the 4th post that its actually your sister.
Nice trolling dude.

FUCKING FLAGGED!!!!!!

You being an Aqua won't understand a word I wrote.

I want to know Cancer in general, not just try to deal with personal issues. But I kinda understand the way you guys think... If you hate me or Aqua that much, why even bothered in the first place, and now calling me troll and such?

It's not bigger of a deal than the anger she caused me. Strange when fb matters that much for someone and in reality they disrespect me. My dilemma is that there's a good side to her. When she's good she's a cat, when she's bad she's a lion.

I don't find it too hard to deal with actually, I just think it's gonna be bad for her. Being too emotional is overwhelming. It's not much a deal, I didn't turn enemy on her, I was just mad. I just hope she doesn't make things more uneasy than necessary for herself. But I'm not sure the fb thing is the reason anyways.

I don't understand why it has to be about 'girlfriend-boyfriend' for you guys to answer to a topic. I just need help. You're making me feel uncomfortable too.

OP - most people presume that the forum is only for gf-bf relationships. Its not true that people dont come here for other relationships too, but when OPs do not specify the type of relationship, most if the readers presume it to be the romantic sort. And when we realize that they were wrong, we also realize how narrow-minded our thought process was! Dont be embarrassed maybe next time just specify your kind of relationship.

My sister is Aqua and we get along just fine. We're both artists, though we work in different mediums and have different styles, but we pretty much understand each other. I don't think she understands the emotional fluctuations as much, but she's never made a big deal about it. Do you know your natal chart and your sister's natal chart? You'll need birth date, time and place if you haven't done a natal chart before. They're great for getting into the deeper parts of a personality.

As for your sister being mad about the fb thing, you're siblings and you unfriended her. Obviously that hurt her, and obviously she cares about it. If you wanted your privacy on fb there are a number of options without unfriending. You could make a custom list of who sees what posts and exclude her from the posts you think would offend her or would start drama, for starters. Also, you could have talked to her about your decision to unfriend her and the reasons for it. Then she would understand and maybe....MAYBE.....not take it so personally.

You might not be as emotional as your sister, but that doesn't give you the right to treat people with callous disregard and then shrug when they get upset. Try to be more considerate and you'll step on less toes. OR, if you don't care that you step on toes, don't complain about people getting upset with you.

But if you want to understand your sister better, get her natal chart.

Is she your little sister?
How about you just try to be nice and she will learn to reciprocate.
Treat her to lunch, Cancers love to eat.

Posted by aurora
LM you think it is actually starchild? hehe busted.

Something isn't right.
The fact that he started it as "This Cancer Girl"
Then she became his sister.

Posted by Zatte
Unfortunately, some people take unfriending very seriously.

Only insecure people does... I was unfriended and i took it as a way to set public presedent and get attention... Beside i refuse to let social media to became part of human interaction... In my mind all that shit will either disappear at some point in time or morph into something else is technology cycles meanwhile people is killing themselves, relationships are broken because of this public interactions... I refuse to get my head under the sand that way... Once i live and socialize without social media i dont see why i need it nowadays... You unfriended me fine... People need to stop caring that much about being unfriended as bad thing as like the other person killed our cats or shit...

People fb page is part of their personal space and of they want you out of that line you should respect that...

My brother is an Aqua. I have a question why do you dudes act like you were constantly dropped on your head when you were little?