cancerian advice

What should i do to get my boyfriend back......he is a cancerian...very temperamental..,..but caring....short tempered but stable....screams and shouts at me but also takes care of me.......he is moody and silent for months on end....but says he will not leave me

"What should i do to get my boyfriend back.....but says he will not leave me."

Did he leave?

No he has not left,,,but there have beem plenty of indications which tell me that he is distancing himself

How do you react to his silence?

I am too scared to go near him.firstly because he will say things to hurt me more and secondly will get more angry and irritated and lash out at me and tell me to get lost again.

So why not get lost like he says he wants? Maybe he needs to see that you can and will move on from him. You need to do something differently to get his attention and cause him to make a change. It sounds like he doesn't value you or respect you and that he's emotionally immature.

Why does it happen that the moment we show that we care....specially to men they treat us like we dont matter....i.mean i love my boyfriend but want to be loved and respected by him in turn.