Virgo women...what do we do to them?

I had a relationship with a virgo. We both met at a time when we both needed each other. She was in school getting her PhD(like duh). She was obsessing over an ex that was married. She had family issues too. Me, I just got a divorce. I was having drama on the job. I was having financial problems so she agreed to let me moved in with her. This was good for her because I kept apartment clean(you virgo's are slobs....borderline nasty. I'am a semi-expert because my sister and ex-wife are virgos and they're the same way, I digress). I also kept the refridgerator full(I'm a cancer not a moocher).
Anyway our relationship got heavy she got pregnant. Cool, I having kids so I know a lil sumthin sumthin about babies. I also know how to be the supportive male. She kinda excepted the situation for what it was but then after the morning sickness and the vomiting for a few days she freaked. So, she got an abortion. I understood. She wasn't ready. She had her career ahead of her. As time went on and me trying to get back on my feet she started to change. We both did. We grew apart. So me knowing when to say when I got my own place and we didn't talk for a year. It was like I was some bad experience she want to put behind her. That's cool. I had things going on in my life so I just took it for what it was.
A year and a half later I bumped into her at church(sort of coincendence, because I haven't seen her and this was her church). So anyway she told me she was moving to my side of town with her sister while she finishes her PhD thingy(mind you her sister's house is crowded). So I offer her to stay at my place free of charge cause I got a one year job working oversea, so she'd have the place totally to herself. It was cool, she let me live with her for 8 months. It was the least I could do. So in that year she took care of my place. She was graduating, but we never concidered ourselves in a romantic relationship. We were friends that occasionally slept together.
Me realizing who she was wanted to make it work. She's a good woman. She's a bit crazy(thinks way too much). Sometimes I think she's bipolar because her thinking would affect her mood. It was like we would talk and she would sound reasonable and calm then the next hour she would be thinking about it and she would freak. I'd just keep quiet and let her talk and talk, and talk and talk. That was my salvation. Just keep quiet. I think she thought I didn't care, but real

I did. I just did like the fact that she was a bit jealous of my daughters. I think it could have worked out. She's now a professor in a Mid Western university. We talked, but only if I call her. I guess she still doesn't want what I want.

I would love to know myself. Virgettes are all over Cancer men....

I truly like them.

I'd like to know this too, o.O. Crabs have a weird influence on us virgo girls. I think it's all that snuggly emotion.

Yeah Candeh I agree. We like you too Mr. Crabby (sigh)

Not this cancer. I'm an ass hole. get off the cancer nutz!😛 ...there hope you hate some of us cancers now 😛

Virgo women are more emo then cancers.. nuff said. They just pretend there not. tho once you get to know them.. damn lol

This is to "Is Cancer bad??" Why is your shit hidden bro? wtf I wanna read it.

The only way I could be with someone so unstable is if I saw her as my ideal partner (besides the craziness). Is this the case or would someone else be a better idea? 😉 😉

She is unstable. Since she has the degrees and the vocabulary she wants the well spoken, well educated guy. These type of guys impress her to the point if they're married or in a relationship she sleeps with them anyway. There were two, or three instances where she did this. One of the times it was with a man that had a Jamacian woman, and she almost got her a** kicked. She showed up at his house trying to be big and bad.

You know what....what am I thinking.....I'm totally giving this way too much thought. She's a waste of my time.


Thanks guys.

Eeeeesh.

Posted by PandorasBox
lmao!! You callin Virgals crazy and unstable comes to no surprise...

My bf calls me crazy all the time...

Strangers call me psychotic...

But perhaps it's not us and in reality it's you for the lack of understanding you beseech on our virginal eccentricities!! You with your crooked sideways walks and big ole claws! Damn those claws that clench to our unsuspecting souls and entrap us with mushy crab insides!!!

SO it is YOU that has a skewered outlook on life yes...

Ha ha ha! Cancer men are so funny calling virgals crazy. Damn they are riots. Riots because they don't EVEN KNOW just how even more crazy their asses come across to us. I really think that sometimes they have bipolar disorder. They are so weird and they don't even realize it half of the time. And they are so crafty in the way that they grip into us with all of their mind games and emotional manipulation. Damn them.

IMO, virgo women ARE crazy when it comes to cancer men... only because they make us that way. 😉

Posted by Candeh15
IMO, virgo women ARE crazy when it comes to cancer men... only because they make us that way. 😉

You damn sure are right about that Candeh...huh, why do you think that is?

It's so common to dismiss someone as CRAZY if you don't understand them. Water sign people tend to behave that way. It's like they lack the ability to see below the superficial facade of people. Whereas, virgos have very strong mental abilities and they know who they are and what they want. They are very emotional and personally, I react physically to unhealthy situations. Sounds like your Virgo is sure that you are not the one for her for reasons she only knows. It can be difficult to explain sometimes. It can be a very strong feeling that something is not right. Several times in my life I have gotten physically ILL when I was about to do something that would have had a serious negative impact on my life. That physical illness saved me in those situations, since I took it as a sign that what I was about to do was not going to have a positive result, so I did not go through with it. Unlike when I got married; everything felt RIGHT.