Weird quote from a Cancer Lady

Hi all.

I have posted more messages about my trainee. For who doesn't know: I'm having a 20 weeks during trainee in a Chalet in a bungalowpark. I live together with 3 girls in a Chalet. One is Aries, One is Gemini and one is Cancer.

Late last night we were talking about relationships and the cancer lady shared a quote with me:

"If someone say's I Love You , or Your Pretty, then he has my love "

Is this a typical Cancer thought — Does someone share this quote ?

Greets Haayo

depends on if we're attracted to the person or not. but yeah, we are easily won over by stuff like this because our imaginations like to develop fantasies about devotion, loyalty, etc.

I'm not that easily won over, on the contrary
but when I have feelings for someone, I'm sensitive to what they say
I won't fall for it right away, but deep inside I'd really like to believe it
(although I won't admit it)

The thing with cancers is that they really crave for love sometimes and it can make them do really crazy, unhealthy things..

"They want to be swept off of their feet. They really do deserve it, too. They are constantly dumped on by previous past fucktard ex lovers that think they own them. Sometimes Cancers pick the wrong guy/girl and get beat up or emotionally hurt. Why? They think its what they deserve. Which is bullshit."

--> "r rated horoscopes"

Also cancers tend to be very insecure.

Linda Goodman once stated:

"The fears of your lunar lovely can really hang you up, along with her. She's afraid she isn't pretty enough, she isn't smart enough, she isn't young enough or she isn't old enough. It makes no difference if she has a figure like Venus de Milo, a face like Helen of Troy and a mind like Aristotle: she'll still feel inadequate. Assure her that she's young, she's lovely, she's engaged, and she has you. About twenty times a day should begin to make a dent."

so.. when someone tells them in a sincere way that they are pretty, or that they are loved, it really means a lot (I repeat; A LOT) to them!!!!!

you should read "cancer woman", I think it's very accurate (even for me 😛)

http://mizian.com.ne.kr/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/cancer.htm#_Toc6671994<BR>

I think I'm very gemini too in a way, true! 🙂

I think it's quite good if she's a bit crabby, whenever I'm crabby it's because there is something bothering me concerning someone special *HINT HINT* and things don't go my way...

How sad 😢

I always seriously consider breaking up or not. We're only human and shit happens!
But in certain cases.. there's just no excuse!

It's hard though. Whenever I'm in love I can't help it, I like left "behind".
I'm still in the "I love you dearly"-fase, while he just screwed things up. And that makes it harder to let go.

I certainly wouldn't be able to forgive him right away!!
I'd need some time to think things over analytically, not with my heart ('cause that's dangerous)

I'm a "good" one in sending mixed signals too! But there are two situations to consider..

1) there was this aries male I fell in love with and we were goofin' around. But after a while I became afraid that he wouldn't like the whole "me" somehow. That's when I started complicating things and when I started pushing him away. Whenever he said something sweet, I just didn't believe him anymore. I still liked the attention he gave me, but I was very insecure. Then one night he text me that he needed me to be close to him, he wanted to feel me, etc.. I told him I didn't want him to try to get into my head (MIXED SIGNALS, cause actually I really did wanted him to drive me crazy) and he replied: I don't like you, I'm not even in love, it's just about sex and I'm very attracted to you in that way. I was heartbroken and ever since I wonder if that was the truth or just a means to protect himself against my (DUMB!!!!) mixed signals..

2) I know a sagi and he's top class! But I'm just not in love with him.. Nevertheless I deeply care for him! He's sexy and attractive, so we flirt a lot, and I kind of feel like he's being encouraged that way by me (MIXED SIGNALS), while I don't want him to fall for me... So sometimes, when he finds out that no, I'm not interested, he gets cold again. Yet whenever I'm with him I just want to squeeze his lungs out cause he's so adorable, I can't help it...

1) I wasn't too sure about his intentions, it seemed too good to be true and yes, maybe I thought I wasn't good enough..

2) Well we almost got together, but I told him in all honesty that I wasn't to sure about us being together, so we decided not to start a relationship. But we do like eachother and appreciate one another. It's just, he's a flirt and I'm a flirt and we're very affectionate towards each other, but he reads more into it than I do. I'm certainly not playing with his heart (on purpose)